i want to go out with a few guys...more than 1. ive got my lill crushes. but im affraid to ask them. i tend to find myself flriting alot. is that bad? and i keep telling myself that im not going to go out with one of the nasty gys in my skull. but now im starting to make eyes at them even tho i dont like them. im also tending to find myself acting fake, and its killing me. i need some serious help. please
2006-11-02 13:54:02 · 8 answers · asked by Mel051293 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no i used to flirt with a lot of guys all the time until i got a bf! but now i love my boyfriend more then ever!! and i bearly knew him when we started dating!
2006-11-02 13:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your single,aren't you? flirting is healthy is some way, as long as you dont take it too personally.i'm sure you know what i mean. no harm, getting to know other guys, you can be friends,you know. i'm sure you know what type of guys you would go out with. so, keep it to your limits then.i guess your being fake to please people.to make them like you.don't do that. dont be an artificial to anyone.not even to yourself.be proud about yourself. and do what you think its right.if you have started to doubt on things you feel its wrong,then its wrong for sure so stop it immediately. so, you are not at all desperate,okay.you just want some attention.
2006-11-02 21:58:53 · answer #2 · answered by chandni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that flirting is not that really good...coz guys don't really trust u in the end and in the beginning of a relationship when they suspects that u r also hanging out wif other guys too.Now y not u just stop flirting and turn over a new leaf...
:)goo LUCK!!!
2006-11-02 21:57:28 · answer #3 · answered by nabila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy, don't be fake around guys or let what other people do influence who you should like and stuff.
The greatest advice I was ever given about guys was that you should never date them if you're not completely ready too and you should NEVER lead them on and be fake with them.
2006-11-02 21:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're just experimenting and just looking around because you haven't found the one that you really like. These things takes time, and you will grow out of it.
2006-11-02 21:59:47 · answer #5 · answered by Hanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not desparate... its called bein a normal human being ;)... if u can't work up the nerve to tell one of them than become ther new best friend, have long conversations with them everynight, make it impossible for them not to notice u, they'll slowly like u more and more til they can't help but tell u they like u.... this worx on me.... GOOD LUCK and YOU WILL DO FINE!!!!!!!!! have fun doin it too!
2006-11-02 21:58:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I notice that when your single for long enough men you wouldn't ordinarily like start looking more appealing.
2006-11-02 21:57:57 · answer #7 · answered by wissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, but is being desperate that bad really?
2006-11-02 22:04:54 · answer #8 · answered by chiefof nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋