ok me and my ex we went out for 4 months and then he broke up witht me becuuse he thought that i was cheating on him with his friend well when we broke up i went to his house because we still talked and stuff but he had a new girlfriend but they broke up like a week before i went to his house so when i went to his house he kissed me and i got nervouse because we werent going out so then i just went along with it and we started making out in his car so then his ex found out and she got mad at me and him so shes not talking to me now well me and him went out again AND HE BROKE UP WITH ME FOR HER !
I WAS SO HEART BROKEN BUT i went to his HOUSE WHEN WE WERE GOING OUT AND HE WAS TELLIN ME THAT I WAS THE ONE FOR HIM AND ALL THIS GOOD STUFF WHEN WE WERE LAYING DOWN IN HIS BED BUT NOW THAT HES BACK WITH HIS EX EX HES SAYING HES IN LOVE WITH HER AND THATS WHAT HE SAID TO ME ! THATS MESSED UP AND I STILL OVE HIM VERY MUCH AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO BECAUSE I STILL LOVE HIM :[[
2006-11-02 13:53:08 · 14 answers · asked by BAByGURL... 06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can either stay with this guy and endure a lifetime of misery or go find someone else and be totally happy. You choose what to do.
2006-11-02 13:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by يا حسين 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow a guy has a girl on his bed and he tells her she is the one for him that is a classic because we men think it will lead to something else at that exact time and place and then after you are not on his bed all of a sudden he is in love with said other women. are you starting to see the picture here. yes i am a man and i tried the same things when i was younger and no i am not that old early thirties but i realized women and thier feelings are not toys but this gentleman is doing this to you. you can find love again time heels all wounds. tell him good luck and move on.
2006-11-02 22:03:37 · answer #2 · answered by ooorha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to tell you this but you need to get as far away from this guy as possible. he knows you love him and he knows he can do whatever he wants to. You are going to accept him back because you love him. You need to move on and stop talking to him, he does not want to be your friend, only to keep you around as a safety net. You are there in case he has problems with her that is all. He afraid to be alone.
I know, i am a guy and i used to do the same thing
so stop letting him use you as a safety net baby and move on, show self respect and make this guy regret ever doing that to you
good luck
2006-11-02 21:59:30 · answer #3 · answered by rcaines1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are beyond help. What you need to do is learn to love yourself. You can either learn to be strong and rise above what you think is love, what really sounds like being used, and move on or you can keep doing what you're doing and be used. You choose. Personally, I think you deserve better. The man is obviously a user and a liar, focus on making yourself a better more desirable person and move on.
2006-11-02 21:59:06 · answer #4 · answered by darkdiva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive me if you're a minor, but I ended up with my wife for 20 years all because when we were 17 sortta the same thing happened between me and her. I kept on switching, but because she and another girl kept breaking up with me due to my curfue. Well, it is shameful for a man to be defeated, but my future-wife seduced me on and off for a month, and then she told me that the reason was because she wanted me to stay with her, but she didn't want me thinking that she was wanting sex, and that the reason for telling me this now was because she was ready. So seduce your boyfriend on and off like that, and then when you think he's fallen for the bait, and you're ready, make the final move. If you think you really are in love with him.
2006-11-02 22:01:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl WAKE UP!!! You're getting played! All he wants is sex. Yes, I know I have been through the best game there is, trust me, I'm old. You know where they seem so sincere, and you think they really love you. Anyway, drop the drama, and move on. Best advice I can give you. Do it for YOURSELF, respect yourself.
2006-11-02 21:57:34 · answer #6 · answered by mandie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, tomorrow during recess tell him that he has to chose between you or the other one and he has to stick with the decision because you can't take all the DRAMA.
2006-11-02 21:57:09 · answer #7 · answered by ValleyR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems to me that he doesnt know what he wants. hes not sure about you and her. and well, everytime you go over there, your kind of leading him on, thats why you always end up making out and you shouldnt be laying on his bed next to him.
2006-11-02 21:56:27 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Mai Tai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm,small desision in the life you lead.Huh,well you got lots of yrs ahead so don't jeprodize your futer for anyone EVER!!
2006-11-02 21:55:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety you need to drop him like a bag of potatos. he seems very flaky he wants his cake and wants to eat it too good luck
2006-11-02 21:57:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋