haha, Well that's not the question, I have this girl that likes me. She calls me her "future hot new girlfriend". My friend introduced us to one another. She sends me messages telling me "what's going on with you and me." how do I break it to her that I don't swing that way (I don't want to be harsh, quite honestly I'm flattered that a girl thinks I'm hot).
2006-11-02 13:50:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Haha thats pretty funny and I would say yes to the first question...lol
But if you just adviod her she'll catch on and know your not like that. I had some sick thing in construction class... I am 16 years old in highschool. And I stupidly registered myself for Construction trades1(teaches you about construction, so you can make a career doing so). And this gay guy kept on following me around the shop room and I just basically ran away, w/e but i got out of that class because it was a bunch of stoners. The construction teachers were smoking weed with the students. lol. So just advoid her, or if you want to let her down easy talk to her about it and maybe even to be friends with her, its up to you good luck with that -Tim
2006-11-02 14:00:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... I think I would treat her like you would treat any man that was forward enough to say, "What's going on with you and me?" ... That is if nothing has gone on. I was once in a bar (not a common occurrence for me) with my husband. We were sitting at the bar and two sisters sat at the bar. One of them sat right next to me. We talked and had much fun... that is until she told me she was very attracted to me and wanted to know if I'd go to the bathroom with her... I was shocked! She was so brash. If a man had said that to me I would have turned and told my husband but because it was a woman I just turned to my husband and told him I was ready to leave. I didn't even waste my breath giving her a reason why I didn't want to have sexual relations with her. I should have told my husband right then instead of waiting until we left. She deserved to be embarrassed because she was obviously of low moral character. Not because she was a lesbian... but because she was rude and disrespectful! It shouldn't be difficult to tell her that you don't care to be with a woman. It's not harsh by any stretch.
2006-11-02 14:00:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're enjoying this flattery at the expens of her feelings. She's declared her attraction, so DON'T LEAD HER ON.
Reply to her message. "I'm flattered but NOTHING is going on between you and me. I don't swing that way. Your friend, Stefy"
2006-11-02 13:57:53 · answer #3 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ick. well, you might be flattered, but don't do anything you'll regret later. Guys can be a pain, but when you find the right one ~ yea baby!! Just tell her - honesty is always the best policy! can't get you in trouble. be wise. :)
2006-11-02 13:53:26 · answer #4 · answered by Forever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just explain to her that you are meant for a straight man only and that you want to have a family someday and a couple of kids..she will think then that you are not into a girl to girl relationship..goodluck
2006-11-02 13:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by hood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always mention your boyfriend (even if you don't have one), that will send out the message.
2006-11-02 13:52:29 · answer #6 · answered by Zooya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you are not interested, period.
You don't have to be harsh, but you need her to stop.
2006-11-02 13:55:49 · answer #7 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's difficult but just tell her the truth and tell her that you'll always be her friend and be their when she needs help.
2006-11-02 14:05:25 · answer #8 · answered by Luke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can say that you have a boyfriend, or that you are not looking for anyone at the moment.
2006-11-02 13:53:12 · answer #9 · answered by wizehuman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be kind about it. its a compliment that a girl finds you good looking. men think with one thing and us girls are lucky not to have one.
2006-11-02 13:53:34 · answer #10 · answered by hugo76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋