i met this guys he is an old school mate way back in highschool. he is my sisters' classmate. he is 1 yr younger than me. he is cute. and claims he is still single and never had sexual experince . he's 30 yrs old btw.
he start texting me and we usually chat, and expresses how he likes me..
and how he wanted to have sex with me
i am separated and never entertained any guy for 2 years now
but this man makes me hot..
and i never experienced this
but am also afraid that maybe he only wanted sex
and though he is saying that he loves me it might not be truth
we still dont do it cause am afraid of the result
what do i need to do
2006-11-02 13:47:01 · 7 answers · asked by crystalink 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he's one year younger than you and he's 30 that makes you 31. So not calling you old by anymeans but when you start to get older you would think you would be less concerned with somone only wanting sex. If you havn't been with anyone for 2 years don't you think its time to get a little action.. see where it goes.. if it doesn't go anywhere and he did just want you for sex.. what do you lose? Your virginity(probably already lost this...) maybe you just feel bad a few days-weeks or maybe you decide to use him for just sex as well. I mean no offense but the older you get you should be more concerned about ending up all alone than oh he just wants sex... Sure there are guys out there like that, lots of them i'm sure... But as long as you have sex responsibly I don't see the problem in it anymore. I would just ask him... do you want me only for sex( he will say no probably no matter what) then go out a while say a month or so then one night just let him have it... but thats just me..
2006-11-02 13:54:26 · answer #1 · answered by morfusaf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CAUTION....Your instincts are right, he only wants sex and you can't blame him for trying. If you can have sex without romance, it might work for you but you want love. I don't think he's got the same thing in mind. He sounds shady--virgin at thirty? And yet he knows how to sex you up? Give me a break. He might even have STD. Listen to your gut feeling. That hot feeling? You'll get over it. Good luck!
2006-11-02 14:02:57 · answer #2 · answered by MaTriX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants sex. Leave him be and wait for an upstanding man who will give you an upstanding relationship.
2006-11-02 13:55:07 · answer #3 · answered by Lyf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he realy loved u you would have sex with him cause you would know. if he asked you right away if you would have sex with him he dont love you . but later if he asked you then hes a keeper. hope my edvice workes 4 u . i sorry if it dont work out.
2006-11-02 13:55:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have fun, but he probably wants sex, and after that you won't hear from him so much! Do what you enjoy!
2006-11-02 13:50:44 · answer #5 · answered by josiedickelman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is 30 and claiming virginity and he is hot.......he is out for sex.
2006-11-02 13:50:05 · answer #6 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful it sounds as if you are playing with fire!
2006-11-02 13:50:43 · answer #7 · answered by Grown Lady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋