she dont want to open up to me about it she, still respects me shedoing good in school just little talking to much in class what should i do o make sure she dont get out of hand
2006-11-02 13:44:33 · 7 answers · asked by www.qaurius 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Well when I first started to get into boys. I was to embarrassed to talk to my mom. Have you tried opening up to her and telling her about your experiences, old crushes, stupid things you did to get a guys attention. Try connecting with her. I know some moms try lecturing about sex right now, since she is just starting to get interested. But if she still doesn't want to open up. Just wait for a little bit. I wouldn't force her to start talking to you about them. But I am pretty sure if she hears your stories she will talk about hers or maybe start with talking about her friends experiences. I would say if she is talking to much but yet still getting good grades, it isn't much to worry about. Other than that I am not sure!
2006-11-02 13:51:21 · answer #1 · answered by sleepyincarolina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm just a little older than her, so I can relate. Just tell her all good things are worth waiting for, and someday she'll know what you mean by this. Tell her that she wants to marry a man, not a boy. Boys are fleeting, but a good man will be their forever.
2006-11-02 21:53:12 · answer #2 · answered by Manx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if she doesnt want to hear it, sit her down let her know what it is about. try not to lecture, but just to talk casually about it. and dont get mad if she has questions. advise her of what some boys think, or might try and do. and explain the consiquences of those actions. try and keep an open dialog even if it is only for 5minutes. just listen and discuss with her what she may or may not be in for
2006-11-02 21:52:21 · answer #3 · answered by ema 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a warning and if she gets into trouble, I am sure you will be the first to hear about it. Tell her if she gets into trouble then she will..... loose...... (whatever you decide is a good consequence) then she will know if she gets in trouble what she will loose. good luck. She is only 13. Make sure she knows you are serious now, you still have five more years.
2006-11-02 21:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by sr22racing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at that age kids tend to grow curious about the opposite gender you should understand her feelings too maybe she doesn't want to open up because she cant trust you....dont blurt out about her if you are with your friends she might get embarrased and not trust you anymore so tell her that she can trust you and encourage her to tell you if she has questions on the boys topic
2006-11-02 22:05:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep an eye on her. that should be fine. have "the talk" with her and let her know she can tell you anything. also, give her a little more responsibility& freedom... ie more chores.her reward: hour later curfew
2006-11-02 21:57:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit her down and have that little talk about the birds and the bees
you can open up to her and let her know how you feel about her opening up to you.
2006-11-02 21:58:11 · answer #7 · answered by jazzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋