my boyfriend cheated on me the day after we got back together, should i forgive him or dump him??
2006-11-02 13:37:32 · 18 answers · asked by horselover1em 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DUMP HIM!
2006-11-02 13:39:34 · answer #1 · answered by Zooya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh little one, I think you know the answer. I have been in your situation, and for some reason we think that their love is worth the pain and misery that will come with knowing someone has been unfaithful to us. The pain NEVER goes away, at least it didn't for me, and I don't believe you ever regain trust for that person either. And from my point of view, why waste your precious time on trying to make something work when he didn't even put forth the effort to make it work in the first place. It was his mistake but you will be the one in the long run to pay for it. I think you should move on, there are many wonderful guys out there, that would not do this to you. Sometimes we have to kiss a lot of ugly toads before we find Prince Charming. I've found mine, I hope you'll find yours....
2006-11-02 13:44:38 · answer #2 · answered by jrw3571 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump his cheating A s s!
2006-11-02 13:39:12 · answer #3 · answered by L♥G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him!!!! You already know he did it before, he'll do it again. As the old saying goes, once a cheat always a cheat. You can do better. Set your standards higher than that.
2006-11-02 13:40:46 · answer #4 · answered by Linda R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to dump his sorry self. there are way to many guys out there that would treat you right. Dont waste your time with that loser. Good luck and remember no one deserves that kind of hurt.
2006-11-02 13:40:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anthony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump him. Once you find out a guy is a pig, you can't change a pig into a horse.
2006-11-02 13:40:03 · answer #6 · answered by osunumberonefan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely not stay with someone that you can't trust and if the trust is lost, then so is the relationship! Sorry...
Just think about all the other people you could meet!
2006-11-02 13:40:23 · answer #7 · answered by Pinkalious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough question....it all depends on you. If you think you can trust him not to cheat again, do forgive him.
2006-11-02 13:41:29 · answer #8 · answered by Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as someone told me that is a professional counselor...get out of that relationship and move on..save yourself the headache and the heartache..i had to make the same choice with my ex...it hurt for a while but i am better off now...dont weaken...good luck..
2006-11-02 13:44:49 · answer #9 · answered by KT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the one who can answer this question. Because only you know how you feel in your heart. You have to sit down and ask yourself can i really trust him.? is he going to do it again,? am i going to be able to handle it, if it happen again? These are the questions only you can answer and if you do answer them and you say no to all of then. well then you know what you have to do
Remember Jesus Loves you
2006-11-02 13:51:22 · answer #10 · answered by jan d 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he do this before you broke up.if he did, then its a big mistake accepting him back..somehow, he did cheat you, dump him!
2006-11-02 13:40:00 · answer #11 · answered by chandni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋