I really love my younger sister, but we are 2 years apart so I always feel like shes doing everything that I do. Like I started basketball(my favorite sport) and now she did too. Now my Grandpa goes to more of her games than mine. I know its ok to get jealus sometimes. Also she gets mad at me for no reason sometimes, I always try to be nice, but sometimes I just get all mad at her. What do I do?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-02 13:28:39 · 8 answers · asked by Sandra D. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
yes, my sister and i have not "liked" each other several times over the last 29 years. you are sisters though and you will forgive and forget over time.
2006-11-02 15:00:16 · answer #1 · answered by neinmom2one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever given any thought to the fact that your little sister
may be copying you because she isn't feeling that good about herself and others in the family are tuned in to it, so they are paying a little more attention to her.
It's not easy growing up, as the big sister especially. You have more responsibility, people expect more out of you. It's natural to want your space, but don't make the mistake of pushing her to far away. She really needs you even if she won't say so.
Just hang in there, it always works out in the end, if you stay
in touch with what's real. Like loving your little sis. Good Job!
2006-11-06 12:39:33 · answer #2 · answered by J B W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to like someone all the time. She is your sister and you do love her. As you get older all this stuff will not matter. Just try to be patient with her and dont make mountains out of molehills. She must look up to you and maybe is a little jealous of you. It will work out.
2006-11-03 01:48:34 · answer #3 · answered by mnwomen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be supporting your younger sister, not making or taking issues with her. You two are flesh and blood, if you have issues with what is a part of you, you will always have issues with that which is not flesh and blood!
No one supports a woman that harms or abuse her own child!
Notice I did not use the word mother!
2006-11-02 13:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Especially when you're growing up. Just because you're family doesn't mean you'll always like each other.
2006-11-02 13:44:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wayyy off normal, in fact I do too...
But you'll get over it when you achieve something that she can't
2006-11-02 13:33:48 · answer #6 · answered by RIOT! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha ha! sounds like me and my little sister!
we fight alot, but most of the time we're best buds
have fun!
2006-11-02 17:58:42 · answer #7 · answered by jfm427 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup totally normal..............its when they stop picking on you or fighting with you that you should worry..............but maybe try talking to her and sepreate your diffrences
2006-11-02 13:33:41 · answer #8 · answered by bearcatz_07 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋