I'm young and im scared and pregnant...help?

Question

help?

Answer 1

can you say abortion?

i can

im sure evangelical christians cant

but see if you can

Answer 2

I was 16 when i got pregnant im almost 18 now. Im rasing my daughter. It really hard and yes im still with my babys dad. It's still hard know matter what. I also know this choose that you make is going to the the hardest choose you'll ever make. Well for me I would think what our my opions about this pregnancy. There is raising it, adotion, abortion. Well I've been pregnant 2 and Im raising one and didnt keep the other one. Do you have anyone to talk to about being Pregnant that is close enought to you that you can trust? If not there is a place called the Planned Parent Hood the # is1-800-230-PLAN. There is another way to talk to someone online thats helps teens that are pregnant only. But they only have an aol screan name so if you dont have aol i'll put its website done on the source, and the screan name as well. What is Right for you. My thought and Question were:
Raising It: Well can you aford it? Do you have all the time you want or need for the baby? Are you able to have enough patiance when everything just goes wrong. When your a teenager raising it will stop you from being able to go out with friends can't party. Have no time to yourself. Do you have a babysitter for school, work, ect. Do you have a job that makes enough?
Adotion: Well could you live with your self knowing that there is someone else rasing your baby. O giveing birth and just handing it over. Could you Live with your self and not hold judge against yourself? And all the same reasoning as with rasing the baby all the question you need to about this.
Abortion: Wel is it the right time for you to have baby? Can you Live with your self knwoing you can never change what you hand choosen. Is this something your against if so can you do this with out hateing yourself or holding judge apond yourself?
I hope this helped I only know what i thought and what my older sister helped me through and my husband support. Good Luck.

Answer 3

There are several options, I say you should explore all of them. Having a baby now doesn't mean you're life is over. If you decide to get an abortion, or put the baby up for adoption, that is something you have to live with for the rest of your life! I'm not saying you shouldn't, it's your body, and you need to do what feels right. I don't have anything against abortion, but consider adoption first, there are many families out there who would take great care of your baby. TALK to someone, an adult, I recommend parents, but if not them, then someone you can trust and feel comfortable with. If you decide to keep this baby, don't let the dad off the hook. It's not just your responsibility, or just your "fault".

Answer 4

I was young when i got pregnant and i was scared to but i promise everything will be ok. you need to go see a doctor and if you already have there is nothing to worry about. yes i am sure you are wondering what in the world your going to do but everything will work out. it will feel really weird at first but once you get through the pregnancy you will think that everything that you went through is worth it.
i was 16 when i got pregnant and i love every minute of being a mom!

Answer 5

Don't Panic!!! It does not do any good to chew you out or talk to you about condoms now, what's done is done. So now it's time to get yourself together and get ready for a long ride. There are many places like the Health Dept., medicaid, clinics for unwed mothers. if your parents won't help you. Don't be scared about being pregnant, just don't do anything stupid like smoke, drink or do drugs! Surely you can refrain form that for 9 months. That about the total of 9 periods you will miss. It's not that long. Anyway get to the doctor or health dept for some prenatal vitamins and and exam. The will talk to you about everything. I don't know how young you are but you have options that you can think about later, you just keep yourself healthy so your baby will have a better chance.

Answer 6

You need to contact social services in your area. They can offer you help. It is really too bad you find yourself in this situation. If you are young, you should enjoy your childhood, if you do not believe in abortion, put the child up for adoption and let it be raised by a responsible adult in a happy home. You can then go back to school and get a good education. Try to keep from feeling the pressure to have sex with boys. You are not obligated and usually when you get pregnant, they run for the hills.

Answer 7

Honestly, i know what your going through, my friend had a pregnancy scare, and she was only 15. I helped her through it because she had no one else to talk to. If you have someone to talk to, you should, because it takes a huge weight off your sholders. If you have no one to talk to at this moment, you can talk to me if you would feel comfortable with it, my email address is [e-mail]
If you dont feel comfortable with talking to me (which i wouldnt blame you), you could always call a help line, or get some information off the internet at unplanned pregnancy .com
God bless you, and god bless your baby

Answer 8

Unplanned pregnancy is scary, especially when you're young. Does the baby's father know? Talk to him and ask if he can support you through this difficult time. If he takes off, he's not worth your time.
You should also talk to your parents and your doctor so you'll be able to get the medical care that you will need. Don't panic, you do have options.

Answer 9

First, why are you on Yahoo! Answers? I would strongly recomend getting off the computer and talking with your parent or gardian. Preferably another female, and telling the father. (If you know who it is.)

If it isn't against your religion you may want an abortion. Or when the baby comes putting it up for adoption.

I hope your problem gets solved!

Answer 10

not to discourage you or be rude cuz i know youre going through a hard time.

but before you decided to have sex with someone you shouldve thought about what you wouldve done if you had gotten pregnant.

i say talk to the father first...and then go to one of your best friends cuz youre definitely gonna need a shoulder to cry on

and face it sweetie if you dont get an abortion youre gonna have to tell youre parents. so i'd go to them now. theres no way around it. im very sorry doll. i really wish you the best of luck

sorry if i was too blunt or anything!

Answer 11

get help from someone you trust, if you're scared of your parents, don't worry so much. they are strict because they love you. if you are old enough to have sex, then you are old enough to handle your problems, not that they can't be scary.