One of my friends asked this guy out that i really,really like and he said no.Now I just want to cry myself to sleep.Do you think he could ever change his mind? And how do i get over this not him?(guys help to!!)
2006-11-02 12:47:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm so sorry about that.. i have been through that many years ago too... but when i really did go out with those guys then, i realised i didn't really like them that much to cry for them!!
you will get over it soon, don't worry and please do not be upset over a guy that don't appreciate you.. if you cry yourself to sleep.. you might end up with horrible eye bags the next day.. it's not worth it.. there's so many other guys around....it's important to look pretty everyday...just sleep and it will be alright the next day!!
the good thing is.. you can still look out for other guys.. or let other guys look out for you!!!
cheers!!!
2006-11-02 13:17:24 · answer #1 · answered by cheesecake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same spot last week with this girl and I keep thinking she'll change her mind but I know I have to move on and u should too. Their are alot of fish in the sea. It'l take time but it will be over with, just move on and remember that he is missing something great with u and its not your fault
2006-11-03 01:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok.. um... this is now 2006, its ok for YOU to ask HIM IN PERSON. Dont have YOUR FRIEND do it for you. Dont cry cause you got rejected.. how old are you anyway? you even old enough to have a bf? im sorry... but you werent dating, not like he broke up with you, he ended it before it even started. sure, you like him, but guess he dosent feel the same. at least he didnt lie to you.. or should i say your friend... and say yes, just to get your hopes up, and hurt you even more later. Youll get over him, just dont think bout him so much. Dont dwell on him saying NO, that will only hurt you more. Its not worth it, nothing even happend between you to. All he did, was told you(r friend) the truth, bout how he feels, and didnt lie, think bout that!
2006-11-02 20:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean your friend asked for you? That is just totally lame. You deserve to be rejected. How do you think he felt dealing with some intermediary? You don't know how it was presented or what he really said if you are letting a friend do it for you. Grow a backbone and make your own moves.
2006-11-02 20:50:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He might change his mind, but more likely, you will realize that there are other fish in the sea. Give yourself some time to be upset, and then try to get out and meet some new people.
2006-11-02 20:50:46 · answer #5 · answered by GratteCiella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat it as a learning experience. There will be a lot more guys and a lot more rejection. Have a good cry and move on. The upside, you get to reject guys occasionally too.
2006-11-02 20:51:43 · answer #6 · answered by Dane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well first of all you just get ur butt up and go have some fun with your friends because crying gives the guys the satisfaction of you being hurt. then you go up to him and tell him that you liked him ad if he changes his mind then to tell you. then you find a new boyfriend to make him jealous.
2006-11-02 20:52:05 · answer #7 · answered by very confused left out girl !! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wants a mature girl...not someone that gets their friends to do all the work. If you want him...you have to go get him. And if it doesn't work out, it wasn't meant to be. There's plenty of other guys out there, and you're obviously very young still.
2006-11-02 20:52:41 · answer #8 · answered by imasooite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He prbably said no because he thought it was some sorta joke. I had my friend ask this guy iout i liked and he said no. Then when i was on AIM he asked me why i didnt talk to him anymore and i told him why. He said that he thought it was some kinda joke but he would love to go out with me.
2006-11-02 20:51:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that will teach you for letting your friends speak on your behalf - teenagers! Don't you have a tongue?
You'll get over it - what's a kids attention span these days - a couple hours, you should be right as rain.
2006-11-02 20:50:31 · answer #10 · answered by iliketorideigohago 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋