Had a long debate w/ my lady friend about this. I hate that fact that pop culture has us to believe that all men are shallow and only look for a mate just for looks. I believe that women are just has much attracted to looks has men. On a personal level every single person has quailties that they for look in someone. Not every guy wants his girl to look like Paris Hilton, and I'm sure not all women want Brad Pitt, we're all different! My lady friend said that women look beyond appearance, they go deeper like personality/beliefs wise even for one night-stands. I believe that's not true, if so all those guys stuck in the "friendzone" would be getting the girl or guy! what do you think?
2006-11-02 12:22:24 · 5 answers · asked by Vesdog! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your right, not all guys r like that but the majority is. And even though u say your not all about the looks, it is scientifically proven that males have it built in them to be attracted to a women just by how she looks. Not saying that all men are like this but think about how many men cheat on their mates every day. Basically men are generally driven by wut they see and girls are driven by how they feel. You c it in ppls actions all the time. Oh and don't worry I'm not ragging on the boys cuz some girls can be players too.
2006-11-02 12:34:21 · answer #1 · answered by diamond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they r important to both men & women, in order for me to talk to you there's gotta be something that calls from a distance( let it be the body or the face).men too get attracted by something before they think of even approching you.dating someone for personality comes afterwards, but first you fall inlove with something(mabye cute butt)..
2006-11-02 12:46:29 · answer #2 · answered by angelic_234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm gonna agree with your girl and pop culture and go with men even though women can be pretty critical too.
2006-11-02 12:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Equal....I think that men and women are attracted to different people for different reasons. It might depend on where you meet someone. It might have something to do with what they are wearing. Lots of factors come in....music...lighting....how much alcohol you had...how lonely you are....on the rebound....out of revenge....think about it.
2006-11-02 12:28:35 · answer #4 · answered by lucy p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well every thing you said that's true but to me looks sometimes don't really matter it's the person themselves.
2006-11-02 12:26:43 · answer #5 · answered by pink girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋