Ok, so I go to this new school where everyone is pretty much a nerd but I like his black girl in one of my classes.
My class has like 200 people in it, so I have never gotten a chance to talk to her yet.
The problem is I don't know how to approach this black girl because she's real sexy, but I'm just a white boy who goes to the same school she goes to. Maybe she wants like a thug or a hustla etc.
Also, once I do get to know her and we end up talking, is there something I need to know as far as making love to a black chick??
I mean, I have confidence and I know I don't have a "little weeny," so that's not the problem, but is there something special I should know first?
2006-11-02 12:21:43 · 9 answers · asked by Daddy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To Gordo Blakhart: Your name sounds gay and you probably are gay. Shut up you british fag.
2006-11-02 12:32:38 · update #1
Don't make assumptions. Build up some confidence and go for it. Not all black women are looking for the thug and hustler types.That's a stereotype. So, just tell her how you feel.You might be surprised.If your intentions are pure and not based on plain curiosity then she'll see that.
2006-11-02 12:27:06 · answer #1 · answered by Mille_D-Gurl08 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Just be normal and treat her like any other kind of woman you would love, She's human. She may appreciate your interest and respect. Don't expect that she wants a "thug or hustla".
She may also want to focus on studies and not get involved with anyone, so just in case she doesn't go with you, its not a comment on your love or anyone's perception of the potential of your weeny. She might want to get her degree first, or not be ready yet, and she might have to get used-to the idea of being a mixed couple, It may take time.
The best thing you can do is respect her and care about her needs, be nice to her, find out what her needs are.
If the time comes when she loves your friendship and you two make love, the best advice is from you and her, as it goes along.
Wish you and her good luck ! and don't forget your studies too.
2006-11-02 12:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by million$gon 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
First a\fo all you must introduce yourself let her know that you think she is pretty and sexy and that you would like to get to know her if she doesn't lagh ihn your face you have made and impression go from there. Next all women like to be treated with respect and honesty and they will in turn show you the same. First of all maybe if you are shy write her a letter expressing your feelings and the thought of going out on a date. Since this is high school I would not go to extreme she may get freaked and you could scrae hwer off. Take things slow and let time take its course that's it hope some of this helps good luck.
2006-11-02 12:26:50 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Brown Sugar by the Rolling Stones Its also called splitting the coal to each there own ask her but you may be in a little deep water at school if she rejects you talk to her first like try to get to know her ask her to a school dance.
2006-11-02 12:26:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh no you are such a white boy! Why not approach her the same as you would a white girl, what's the difference. By the way women of color appreciate romance as much as white girls do. What you have to worry about is whether or not you possess the qualities she is looking for in a guy. As for the bedroom, first you have to get there. She is going to have so much fun with your naive ignorant butt!
2006-11-02 12:27:22 · answer #5 · answered by Boots4ACowgirl 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she wants a thug or a hustler?
wow your fast huh? don't know her but figure that's probably what she wants?
and what does white or black have to do with it?
black men ask white women all the time and by the way so do the white men for black women????!!!!!!!
you have to ask....ask....ask....ask....
well......here we are in fourth gear and are not in the car yet!!!!!!
first get to KNOW her before you set up the sheets ,,jeez!!!!
who said black women have too have just big sticks?????
you know what i think now that i see where your at??
LEAVE THE YOUNG LADY ALONE AND FIND A WHITE GIRL,
YOU ARE NOT READY FOR THAT EITHER I SEE, SECOND THOUGH..... GET A MAGAZINE AND ENJOY.
2006-11-02 12:36:42 · answer #6 · answered by transvainia 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Yes, bigot. You should know that she is female and colour doesn't freaking matter. How about you treat her with the respect that she and every other female deserves. And don't refer to her as a "black chick".
As far as I am concerned, you are a complete A$$ and don't deserve her attention, let alone a date.
Have fun 'Honky Dude'.
2006-11-02 12:27:05 · answer #7 · answered by GORDO BLAKHART 3 · 9⤊ 1⤋
i dont like how your always saying this "black girl" she is a person you know just ebacsue your white why should it matter and jsut because sheafrican american doesnt mean she only likes thugs or hustlers and i donjt think she deserves someone who calls her a black girl
2006-11-02 12:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by Zoey 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
There is a very famous saying by Akon "smack that all on the floor..smack that till you get sore.."
2006-11-02 12:26:33 · answer #9 · answered by pakachuchu 2 · 0⤊ 8⤋