scenairo. A young women in her 20s talks about how she is trying to get her life togther and plans on staring a family and buying a house but when you meet her boyfriend it seems like he is not as serious about life as his girlfriend. He wears a stupid ball cap with his pants hanging off his a s s and he looks like he does not give a damn about his future. Why is it the same pattern with young women. PLEASE EXLPAIN.
2006-11-02 12:01:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust me it happens with older women as well, and not surprisingly there are some men who experience settling for second best instead of being patient. The root of the problem is while we want to have a successful career, money in the bank, a big fine house, and the 2.0 children, we don't want to wait until the right person comes along who feels the same way about certain things in life as we do. Therefore, we settle for someone far less mature and serious about life than what we had intended because we don't want to be alone. We hate being alone, we hate spending time with ourselves, we can't stand the quiet. For some reason we believe that it is easier to be with anybody than with nobody.
2006-11-02 12:17:37 · answer #1 · answered by roddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women already know that type of dude is just temporary and they just want to have fun at the moment but we know what man have great potential and want the same thing we want. And, to be honest most young women in their early 20's still trying to figure out who the are. I do hope this give you a little insight.
2006-11-02 20:10:44 · answer #2 · answered by JO`NAE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evidently, they think they can take these slobs and turn them into real men. Some of them learn before making a commitment to them that they can't, and others don't learn this until after they've walked down the aisle with 'em.
2006-11-02 20:06:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not quite sure. We seem to be attracted to idiots, for some odd reason. I guess it's because of their INITIAL appeal. Then, when we finally DO get them committed, we start to realize that they're not all that great. But by that time, we're either too lazy or too afraid to get rid of them.
... I hope I don't fall into that trap.
2006-11-02 20:04:07 · answer #4 · answered by Aimers 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a woman but I have plenty of experience. Woman swear they can change guys or their just saying they want to settle down when they don't.
2006-11-02 20:05:00 · answer #5 · answered by Bob G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shes in her 20's she is not about to start a family no time soon hopefully and dont hate the player hate the game
2006-11-02 20:32:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not the women, it's the boy's. They don't mature until they are around 27.
2006-11-02 20:04:18 · answer #7 · answered by kny390 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think she might be hanging around with him but he may not be the one she wants to settle down with. or maybe she likes being the miss perfect by talking to se your reaction.
2006-11-02 20:12:55 · answer #8 · answered by rennygyal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because its a goodf idea to get your life together [but still have fun] when your just starting off... otherwise you could make bad habits and get screwed later on...
2006-11-02 20:04:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not how they dress. my boyfriend is really serious about his future, and he dress w/satan t-shirts and big pants.
2006-11-02 20:04:19 · answer #10 · answered by jungle cheeks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋