I like this girl and we used to talk and sit close each other in class. I could tell she liked me i thought, she would smile and laugh when we talked. Then she started to act kind of different and didn't say much. I used to walk with her after class, but stopped after she kind of didn't say much to me in class and kind of ignored me. Then she started not to sit next to me in class, and really wont even look at me. So i guess i have been kind of ignoring her to because im confused. So do you think she just doesn't like me?
2006-11-02 11:39:50 · 8 answers · asked by Kevin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't ask us - ask her you idiot !.
Try " I'm sorry if have I done something to upset you - can we talk about it" or "I've missed walking with you after class"... then pause and wait for her to say something.
2006-11-02 11:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that she actually fancies you and doesn't want to appear to desperate. Or maybe she felt that you liked her but she didn't and didn't want to give off the wrong signals.
You didn't say how old either of you are so it's difficult to assess the level of maturity she would have which might affect the way she deals with her feelings.
Just go up and speak to her- it's the only way you'll really know. Ask her if you've done something to offend her 'cos it feels like she's been avoiding you, then say you hope not 'cos you like being friends. Don't question her about her feelings just yet and don't reveal yours (if you have any), wait until you are both comfortable with each other again.
2006-11-02 11:53:01 · answer #2 · answered by Vic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she has been told something about you by someone else!
When you are a teen, life can be very hard. There are loads of hormones, loads of influences to deal with.
If you think she likes you, take the next step and ask her! That way, you will have taken a BIG step towards growing up and be the bigger person for dealing with this whole situation.
Good luck, and if she replies with a negative, at least you can move on and look at other girls you may be interested in.
2006-11-02 11:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have fallen into the realm of maybe a friend she has know
feelings for you in a intimate or romantic way she most likely has a njew guiy in her life or is thinking of getting involved and doesn't wan't to hang around you encase you scare him off so anyways you do not meet her standards anymore but just to make yourself feel better ask her why she has distanced herself from you most women will be honest and blunt so don't be surprised if she just tells you the truth and asks you to leave her alone.
2006-11-02 12:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if you have upset her in anyway. you know how it gets in school. you say something to a friend and it gets around the whole school. jus try and talk to her.
2006-11-02 11:49:56 · answer #5 · answered by free_wild_alone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah I think she's sweet on you. Maybe she'd like you to make some moves on her and is getting fustrated.
2006-11-02 12:01:59 · answer #6 · answered by shaymeyabu2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ehh, she has another man ehh yes? Probably. Lost cause, eh.
2006-11-02 11:47:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋