so me and my boyfriend were going out on and off for about 3 years now and just recently i kinda cheated on him. he's always been a horrible boyfriend to me so i think my anger just got to me when i did it. i regret every bit of it. he didn't want to be with me again after that because he didn't beleive i would actually change. we fought all the time about stupid things though and he was kinda controlling when it came to me hanging out with my friends. i don't know if i should keep trying to get him back because i love him still or try and move on.
2006-11-02 11:35:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on!! Go back and read your question you never said anything nice or positive about this guy at all. From your description to me he sounds like a total jerk. I'd rather be alone then be with someone like that. That's not how relationships are supposed to be.
2006-11-02 11:39:48 · answer #1 · answered by jblonde 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he isn't giving you what you need in a relationship unless your want to punish yourself then you should go back with him but 3 yrs has already been long enough what the point wasting your life on a man that is controlling and doesn't want you to have a life, fighting all the time is a waste of good energy you should just focus on your friends plan a trip or join a gym get yourself busy try new things believe what you think may be love may just be what your used to and when you get busy and meet new ppl by doing new things then you'll find out how u really feel.Good Luck with your decision :)
2006-11-02 11:48:26 · answer #2 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You went out "off and on" for 3 years, "he's always been a horrible boyfriend", "we fought all the time", "he was kinda controlling".........then you cheated on him.......and you wonder if it is right that he leaves you?
Even if he were wonderful, what you did was wrong and he has every right to leave. However, I can't imagine why on earth you wanted him as a boyfriend in the first place.
Move on with your life and let him do as he pleases.
2006-11-02 11:42:50 · answer #3 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way in hell I would take back someone that I know has cheated on me. If he was such a terrible boyfriend why did you stay with him so long? Sorry but no amount of anger justifies cheating, I would take this a valuable life lesson and move on.
2006-11-02 11:42:59 · answer #4 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey you just need some time to move on i also was in a 5yr relationship and it ended in the summer so imagine how im feeling she broke up with me to be with someone else, but anyways you need time and go out more. you can meet new people and make new friends and time is the only healer. So if he treated you like crap then you need to be a better person and find someone that can treat you like the great person that you are.
2006-11-02 11:43:20 · answer #5 · answered by ferncc21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i really think you should try to move on dear. its been 3yrs that you are with him but still, for some reason, the two of you didnt establish the trust for each other. you know how critical trust is in every relationship. forget about him. try to move on. there are lots of guys out there that will be more compatible to you. you will not be happy in that kind of set-up you know. good luck..
2006-11-02 11:44:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cheat, your partner leaves. Cause and effect baby. He has every right to leave you and never come back. Besides from the sounds of it you did not belong together anyways.
2006-11-02 11:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by ecp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y would u hang around osmeone hoos unappreciative of u and hoo u dont get along with? its hard sometimes when u thik ur so in luv with someone..but the sooner u start moving on the sooner ull realize that its not luv. u deserve better! im sure ur beautiful in ur own way and if he cant c that hes not worth ur time
2006-11-02 11:39:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look move on and forget him. I mean you want someone that you don't feel that you have to cheat on because of your anger. If that's how he makes you feel.
2006-11-02 11:43:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stupid question... move on.... u already said the relationship was bad to begin w/and that he was a bad boyfriend.. why do u want to be w/a bad bf????? don't u think u deserve better.. love has nothing to do with it.. how bout u to start loving urself first and move the helllllllll on....
and u cheated.. i wouldn't want u either....
2006-11-02 11:40:34 · answer #10 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋