What should I do? I want him back ! Me and my ex boyfriend still like eachother. But he just doesnt want to date me (right now). We were talking to eachother all day today (11-2-06) and I thought he might be interested I really need help ! I still love him. HELP !!
2006-11-02 11:34:50 · 5 answers · asked by XoX Lil Princess XoX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In all honesty we out here should not be making your life's decisions for you. Advice and direction perhaps, but these really tough decisions are for each of us to resolve for ourselves. You've said that he doesn't want to date right now, maybe you need to come to grips with that reality. On the other hand, you still like one another, and can spend time together so all is not lost in so far as your friendship. Think about giving him the space he has asked for, and resolving to give some different type of meaning for your life. I don't know what your circle of friends is, nor do I have any idea about your personal network, but maybe try to access those resources to fill your alone time. Also don't fear being alone. Our time spent by ourselves is very precious and is the perfect time for self reflection and sizing up where we are and where we'd like to go. I sincerely hope that you get through this OK, and with help from friends, a little luck, and inner strength you'll do just fine. Good luck!
2006-11-02 11:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by ron k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down and think of why you broke up. If things are still the same then move on. Were you more serious about the relationship than he was? Are you seeing other people? For now you need to step back and look at what is going on. Is he seeing other people? Do you know? Do you ask? Ask him whatever you want to know. Don't try to think. You will end up imaging all kinds of things that aren't so. If he's seeing others and you're not then you may feel hurt but at least you'll know. If you're afraid to find out what he's doing then get over it. If he's talking to you all day that means he still likes you but may not mean he's ready to get back together. What if you just went out on dates with other people to keep things simple. Join Match.com and see what other people are like. If he wants to get back together with you he can just tell you before you forget about him. Don't drive yourself crazy.
2006-11-02 11:49:23 · answer #2 · answered by psi2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you bide your time and go on with your life! Most of the time " EX " means just that! Find a new BF
2006-11-02 11:37:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are the circumstances ? why doesnt he want to date you? i say you shouldnt waste your time waiting and find someone you can date now and who wants what you want ...
2006-11-02 11:38:26 · answer #4 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to him and get real close so that your boobs touch him then talk to him.
2006-11-02 11:37:21 · answer #5 · answered by catlover309 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋