ok... i am usually not a person hoo cares about what other ppl think about me but i just have this weird gut feeling that i need 2 stay away from him bc it will ruin my reputation but i like him alot when its just me and him then when its a group of friends or something i feel completely diff. like "wat the heck am i doing with HIM of ALL PPL!!!" HELP!!!
2006-11-02 11:31:00 · 6 answers · asked by Animal I Have Become 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think alot of the anwsers to your question lies in your age, but i'll state my opinion and try and just base it on your problem. I think either he's not that cute and this is brought to your attention alot more when people are around, or your a social butterfly and he's the opposite which makes for an odd situation around groups. either way sweetie, im a big believer in not settling for less. not that theres anything wrong with this guy, but if he can't hold your attention and make you proud to be with him wether its just you two or 100 people are around not much can come of it. the guy you go for should be able to give you butterflies all the time. The world is full of men from all around the world who could do this, don't just settle for this guy for a little attention one on one. thats my two cents good luck!!
2006-11-02 11:39:22 · answer #1 · answered by WhattaYaKnow?! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not feeling comfortable when you two are around your friends-then that is totally a warning sign that this guy is not the one.
It's okay to be attracted to someone and not get involved with them on other levels. Is it that he doesn't blend with your friends? If that's the case you shouldn't feel bad about that. After some time, he will be just another part of your group and just like the rest of your friends he will add a unique perspective on life to the group.
But ,if it's that you are embarresed to have him around your friends then I think that's your conscious telling you that he is not up to your standards and everyone around you is thinking the same thing.
I hope I helped out some.
2006-11-02 11:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by ladyjo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your first problem is worrying about your reputation. Once you get out into the real world, i.e. out of school, nobody will care what you do or who you like. Second, if this guy treats you good and gives you the respect you deserve, then return the favor and be a friend. If you can't do that, then do him the favor and never talk to him again.
2006-11-02 11:41:05 · answer #3 · answered by Cannibal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what other people think! If u like him, go 4 it.
2006-11-02 11:35:52 · answer #4 · answered by Nanner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds shallow
2006-11-02 11:33:34 · answer #5 · answered by dratsum_blonde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well idk wat u said on the last part but u may want to speak clearly ok it might help just a lil
2006-11-02 11:34:02 · answer #6 · answered by *Living a {{ღяøM@N!Cღ}} Tragity* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋