Ok i met a great girl, and we started dating after a couple of weeks. Almost a month into it she didn't like how I was always wanted to be around her(which is something I had started to lay off on) so she broke it off. I still really like her but she likes this guy thats done some sexual stuff in the past, and he does nothing but think of getting that sexual stuff girls. Me and my/her best friend are probably gonna beat the crap out of him if he trys anything on her we don't like, but thats irrelvant. my question is how do I get him out of the picture and me back on her mind. We aren't great friends so I know I gotta built a frienship before I can hope for anything, but whats the best way to build that friendship and then where do i go from there?
2006-11-02 11:14:24 · 8 answers · asked by Brian W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are just somethings that you cannot control.
Other peoples feelings are one them.
The weather is another.
Get use to it and you will be a lot happier in life.
2006-11-02 11:16:58 · answer #1 · answered by t433_sd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Based upon what you said above, you wouldn't know how to build a relationship. You screwed it up because you only think about yourself. "I still really like her," you say and that is the only reason your obsession continues. You just want to "win" because you lost when she took off. You are pissed and you are not going to let any woman treat you like that. So you want us to give you a formula because that is how you live your life. When b.f. walks into the picture you and your homie are going to beat the crap out of him if he does anything "we don't like." You are a stalker in the making and I hope she is on yahoo and reads this. What a fool she would be to give you another tumble. That would be encouragement.
I believe this is a phony question but it could be true. Either way you are not to be trusted. Sorry
2006-11-02 19:22:01 · answer #2 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is either into you or she's not, wait a few weeks maybe four or five as long as you can, but do give it some time..than give her a call on the phone. Feel out the conversation to see if she is seeing anyone. After some conversation (if its going ok) suggest just hangin out go for coffee whatever, you'll know by the tone of her voice if she is interested or not. and if she says yes to a coffee just leave it up to her if she wants to see you again. Don't be over anxious!!! women hate that if they are not really into you yet...that will surely scare her off! As for the other guy, it is her business who she chooses for friends and not yours! If he is a jerk she will soon find that out on her own, but if they are good for each other then just leave them alone.
Good Luck!
2006-11-02 19:39:07 · answer #3 · answered by peggy d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls get creeped out when a guy is clingy. but on the other hand she may not want a serious relationship, which is what it sounds like may be happening. beating the guy up may not be the best course of action. last but not least be honest with her and find out if she even wants a relationship with you. if she does give her some space and vice versa.
2006-11-02 19:23:03 · answer #4 · answered by william w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her. Show that you have a manly sensitive side.
Don't be too aggressive though. No one likes to feel like they are being hunted.
Try saying hi to her when you see her and just having a normal conversation with her.
Maybe after she sees through this new bf of hers she will see how much she actually misses you.
2006-11-02 19:20:15 · answer #5 · answered by GaelicMel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you GO to your life and MOVE ON (she's not worth it because I would LOVE to have a guy like you and I mean that literately you can send me an e-mail if you like)
2006-11-02 19:38:31 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with all due respect, i think you should just move on..whatever she does now is on her and its non of your business..if she really liked you she wouldnt have dumped you for being clingy..she should have talked about it and worked it out..
2006-11-02 19:17:54 · answer #7 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't rush let the cards fall where they fall
2006-11-02 19:15:41 · answer #8 · answered by Mo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋