and if u dont like a fat girl explain why or why not cause i am fat trying to get skinny i am 5 feet 2 inches and i wiegh 143 how do i get skinnyier or do guys care if they date a fat girl and i am only in 7th grade
2006-11-02 11:11:17 · 18 answers · asked by lily pad fat =( 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh and i am 12 and i got a role
2006-11-02 11:28:45 · update #1
you just need to exercise thats all.
2006-11-02 11:14:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, I think you should not "try to get skinny." Instead think about trying to get healthy. For someone your age and height, you're about 20-30 pounds overweight. That's not much for someone your age to take off easily -- if you're active. If you're not active, you might want to think about changing your lifestyle a bit. The other thing to think about is what you're eating habits are like. It's not a bad thing to eat, so don't try to lose a whole bunch of weight by fasting or not eating. The best thing to do is eat smaller portions (something like 200-400 calories). But eat more often -- four or five times a day up to 2000 to 2500 calories total per day. That will kickstart your metabolism -- you're going to want that if you want to be at a healthy weight. Another thing to consider is to eat more fruits and vegetables. Eat less carbohydrates, foods that are fried and and food that is high in saturated fat. I know that sounds like a lot ... but it will be better for you in the long run.
As for the boys ... well, I think your personality is what's going to win in the end. It'll make for a more meaningful relationship. If you hook up with guys who like you just for your looks, you're going to be unhappy for a different reason and not just about your weight.
2006-11-02 11:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by murray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not a guy but hunny you are not fat. At your age there are going to be a lot of changes to your body. So don't worry about how much you weigh and just enjoy school. Im 5 feet and 2 inches too and Im about 145 pounds and Im not fat. I have a bunch of hot guy friends that have the hots for me so Im not worried about it. Now Im not a toothpick but I have enough confidence in myself to believe that I look great. So don't worry you will meet a guy who likes you soon.
2006-11-02 11:17:31 · answer #3 · answered by bktp37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are not fat. Think of yourself as voluptuous, If you were 250 lbs. than you would be fat.LOL
Eat healthy! Watch the amout of sugars you eat. Eat more lean meats. Cut down your intake of carohydrates (Breads, cakes, pasta)by 75%. Drink more water and less pop. Go for brisk 20 minute walks at least 4 times a week. You be You. Like yourself because of who you are.
2006-11-02 11:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a senior in highschool. and ive got some good and bad news for you. I really dont like fat girls, i feel its your fault if your fat and its pretty gross. but if your in seventh grade theres hope. When i went into hs all of a sudden these girls i never noticed or were not the greatest looking before became hot over summer. so theres hope. so get your shoes on for a run. sittin behind the computer isnt gunna loose the pounds
2006-11-02 11:15:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off, YOU ARE NOT FAT! You might be carrying a few pounds more than you want. Don't snack between meals or after supper. And walk every day. And stop being hard on yourself!!!
2006-11-02 11:14:38 · answer #6 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guyhater? If you hate them, they'll hate you back sweetie. You should'nt worry about that....just remember you're fat and special that's what matters!!
I'm skinny and been single for a while, meanwhile my fat friend is engaged and getting married next year to a nice looking man.
2006-11-02 11:16:54 · answer #7 · answered by Bibi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to get a lot of exercise and have a very healthy diet. I am sorry to say that most guys your age will not look for personalty they will go for the body. just blow them away at how beautiful you can really be
2006-11-02 11:18:11 · answer #8 · answered by Soccer Chik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends how fat even so right now you are only in seventh grade an odds of you finding that special someone now are slim to none so you have time to slim down if thats what you want
2006-11-02 11:14:43 · answer #9 · answered by green_tractor_man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to have a strict diet and excercise on a daily basis. Alot of people like overweight people. It just all depends on the person. Good luck on your diet
2006-11-02 11:15:37 · answer #10 · answered by tckk1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself - if a guy does not like who you are, or won't take the time to get to know how special and unique you are, then he's a waste of your time.
Or He's just after something else.... watch out for those idiots.
2006-11-02 11:15:39 · answer #11 · answered by emmyfair 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋