Well there this guy I like and he finally told me he liked me things went well and he jst broke up with his girlfriend. He kept sending me flirty text messages and so did I and then a month later he went back to his girlfriend, I was really upset but then he said I'm really special to him and I'm his best mate and suddenly we kind of stop texting all together because he was caught up with his girl and he wouldn't reply my texts and then a month later he texts me randomly say how i'm doing and that but he still with his girlfriend!! I am really confused, I still like him but i don't want to be a relationship ruiner. Also i'm really upset because i was so close of being his girl!!! Please help!!
2006-11-02 10:54:54 · 9 answers · asked by Miss_Party_Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he obviously likes you, but he likes his girlfriend as well. i was in a situation like that once. my now bf was with his ex when we met, i liked him, i never told him But he knew. he liked me as well but he wasn't sure what to do since he already had a gf. in the end i told him that we couldn't be friends coz we both had feeling. we didn't talk for a month and then he started txin me again. finally he broke up with his ex n now we r together. you shouldn't wait for him coz he already chosen who he wants.sorry i know that is harsh but you don't deserve to be second best. i know that I'm contradicting what my experience has shown me but if you feel like he's the 'one' wait if not leave it and keep going with your life. this probably hasn't helped you in anyway but hopefully it has given you an insight to to he rare cases where being second is being first!
2006-11-02 11:25:21 · answer #1 · answered by free_wild_alone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not married, it doesn't sound as though you could ever have a real friendship with this guy, your feelings are too strong.
You should confess your feelings and if he does not come to you then he is weak.
Some people see what they have as comfort. He is comfortable with his girlfriend. That doesn't mean he is happy, offer him something else, if he takes it, u r both happy, if he doesn't you can move on!
2006-11-02 10:59:39 · answer #2 · answered by Helen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
difficult..i really feel foy you actually!its not nice being second best!!the best thing for you to do is let go of him..easier said then done..i know but he will continue doing this as he knows you will put up with it..walk away and have some time for yourself before you meet the real man for you!!i really do wish you the best xx
2006-11-02 11:03:49 · answer #3 · answered by Lydia K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called 'covering your ***' and trying to make sure you can have your cake and eat it, or at least an alternative. Don't waste your time with him.
2006-11-02 11:03:17 · answer #4 · answered by JMac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's jerking you around, move on or you'll get hurt even more.
2006-11-02 11:00:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just using you to boost his ego dump him girl step up and move on
2006-11-02 11:20:16 · answer #6 · answered by xxxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can do better hun... hes a divi... dont waste yr time.. coz he aint worth it xx
2006-11-02 11:04:46 · answer #7 · answered by cathrin j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he isnt worth worrying about. just forget about him and move on
2006-11-02 10:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by mrstigerstripes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*********** txt this number and i will show you what a gentleman should be like.
2006-11-02 11:07:53 · answer #9 · answered by inkthebrain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋