well anyway, he broke up with me friday because he isnt doing so well in his courses and he needs to, we have a long distance relationship its about 3 hour drive. i try to see him as much as possible even every weekend if he doesnt have to much homework. i love him we dated for 10 months there is no one like him, he says he isnt doing good because he misses me so much and he can only think about me and not his homework. do u think there is anything i can do, he will be coming up on the 11th, or is this it, we still talk like nothing happened, we talk the same amount of time, he just doesnt say he loves me anymore that is all that has changed
2006-11-02 10:54:21 · 5 answers · asked by t l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he isnt having sex with someone else, i did offer to move there as well
2006-11-02 10:59:13 · update #1
My bet is he found someone else and didn't want to be cheating on you. I hope the homework thing is true though. Maybe things will work out for you though!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-02 10:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by Sandy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um, i went to college a long time ago, and have had a long distance relationship, and have had many friends that have had the same...bottom line...they never work.
In 10 years, 10 months, 10 weeks, 10 days...hopefully in 10 minutes...you'll realize what a waste of time a long distance boyfriend is. Go out and meet new people, lots of them, and maybe you'll find someone as special as you think he is, and he'll be right there walking distance from your dorm. If you don't you may regret it later...college is a once in a lifetime experience.
100% honest...he found someone else, got drunk and cheated on you, that is what college is all about...social freedom and meeting new people..sandwiched in between hours of intense study. Save the money you spend on the long distance bill and go out and have some fun!
If it was meant to be, he'll find you later or he'll keep in touch as a friend and you can continue much later if you both still feel it.
2006-11-02 11:07:42 · answer #2 · answered by Doctor J. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he cant stop thinking of you then you need to go back out, but if he says no then tell him he needs to move on because you deserve better then to have your heart played with, with him telling you that he misses you adn that he cant concintrate on his work and yet wont tell you he loves you then whats the point of even wanting to be with him girl and tell him that if he really missed you then he would take you back that day!
2006-11-02 10:58:20 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that.
I hope you can understand where he's coming from though.
Just give it some time.
You'll never know what can happen in the future.
When he's finally done with school.....
2006-11-02 10:57:24 · answer #4 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's boinking someone else alot closer.
2006-11-02 10:57:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋