I have talked to my gf about his stuff, but she is really held up by something. I wanted to know how she was doing otherwise and she is very closed up (and it goes beyond our relationship, I assure you).
She has been distant with me and under a lot of stress otherwise (although much of it self-induced, I have to say). She has some things going on with her in terms of us, some things she is coming to grips with. And I got worried. (It's a long story) Anyways, I emailed one of her good friends and alluded to the fact that I was "a little worried" (my exact words). I asked if I could call her or go out for a drink, told her why, and even told her I intended to tell my gf. My only intent was to figure out how she was doing outside of us. What would you think if it was you? I have never cheated and have no desire to.
2006-11-02 10:44:47 · 4 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if she thinks your cheating on her, and you not and never will then tell her and have her friend assure her that it was nothing more then a drink or more. Other then you and her friend going out for a drink or more i think you have every right to be worried id be worried to if my bf wasnt telling me what was going on with him outside of our realationship.
2006-11-02 10:50:30 · answer #1 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but that is a bad move. You don't go out with your girlfriends friends. What were you thinking. Even if your intentions are good it never looks good. I guess it depends on your girlfriend.
2006-11-02 18:50:32 · answer #2 · answered by Glee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are currently having problems then she could get even more pissed, or she could think that it's sweet. It really depends on the woman.
2006-11-02 18:49:11 · answer #3 · answered by Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i would be very mad, even if it was to talk about me i wouldnt want my man out with my friend
2006-11-02 18:53:09 · answer #4 · answered by adnama_n_werd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋