okay so recently these two juniors (im a freshman) in my class have been actually talking to me. they make fun of me and i always tell them to get the HELL away because it bugs me, but they nevr did until recently when they apologized for being mean and offered to take me to lunch. im like "ookkayyy...im not going anywhere..." and now they always tell me to slow down and hav fun with them.
they invite me places and when i say "no" they wont leave me alone!!!! omg!!!!! today they blcoked the doors of my classroom until id talk to them and tell them why i didnt want to hang out.
im seriously scared now. why me? why annoy me? its not like im some qiet, shy girl...im outgoing anf if they did anything bad, they know id immediatly tell someone...i have a HUGE mouth.
what do i do? they blcoked doors...thats weird. HELP!
2006-11-02 10:21:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOL you just want me to say what u want to hear huh? WELL DUH! THEY THINK YOUR CUTE AND FUN. i know you knew this so why waste 5 points to hear an obvious answer. you know your not scared, you like the attention u get from the 2 boys. sorry sweety but really.............
2006-11-02 10:26:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it known throughout the school what these guys are doing. Tell all of your friends. Go to the counselor and speak to the vice principal about this issue. Stop walking to your classes alone. Make friends with a big guy that play sports so he can be your teddy bear (if you don't have any male relatives around these guys age). Don't be quiet about it. Ask them what do they want loudly. Go up to them in the cafeteria and ask them way do you keep blocking the door to my (3rd period class)? Make sure you are heard whenever you make a statement to these guys. Don't get caught alone. It sounds like these guys are the date rape type. Watch your back at all times.
2006-11-03 09:28:16 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with everyone else. and remember the longer you wait the worse it could get. ive had a few stalkers in my day and i also am very outgoing and have a BIG mouth. but sometimes when you get intimidated you tend to clam up even if you dont want to. i know you may be thinking you dont want to make a big deal out of it or might make you look stupid...but seriously..its better to look stupid than to be stupid right? i also suggest you never be alone. always have someone with you...preferably a guy but a couple girls work too. trust me on this one...sometimes things happen when you least expect it too....dont ever think that all the stuff you hear on the news that happens in this world today cant happen to you..because it can. never forget that you can NEVER be too careful.....
2006-11-02 18:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by lil gizmo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get someone involved like a teacher or a counsoler. This is a little extream. They can talk to you but they have no right to force their presence on you by blocking your way. You need a one on one with a teacher you trust, and give them your story. Once that's out then try to get the teacher to hear the boys sides. So he/she can be nutral. Then try to get a meeting togeather between the 4 of you (teacher, you and teh two boys) and voice your discomfort with the situation. This is how adults do it. Best of luck!
2006-11-02 18:26:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am so sorry your high school experience has started off like this. They (believe it or not) are probably trying to flirt with you. That of course does not give them any excuse to act like they are. Talk to your teachers and your guidence/ student assistance councelor they can help. They take this stuff seriously. I am pretty sure it is a form of harassment.
Best of Luck, I hope it all gets better.
Christine
2006-11-02 18:26:53 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are doing this because they see how upset it makes u.If u don't talk to them then they are going to bother u until u do.So u need to chill and stop letting them get to u.Make fun of it.Like tell them that if they need your attention that bad to make an appointment.In a fun like way.Have fun with them and they will get tired of it and go away.Good luck
2006-11-02 18:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with the world the way it is today tell someone with authority or tell them to get the hell away and if they dont you will press harassment charges against them you have a gut for a reason to tell you when something bad is going to happen trust it
2006-11-02 18:24:33 · answer #7 · answered by inluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL A TEACHER NOW. TELL A COUNSELOR, THE PRINCIPLE ANY ADULT.
These boys are HARASSING YOU and it isn't right, and there is no way for us to know if their behavior won't become VIOLENT. They blocked the doors, that isn't WEIRD, it's CONTROLLING and inside a locked room, they could have really hurt you. Don't wander around alone and PLEASE TELL A TEACHER NOW.
2006-11-02 18:24:57 · answer #8 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess they realized their stupidity and are making up to you - but are being a little extreme. BE CAREFUL, though - they might be trying to take advantage of you in some way. it sounds ok that they're being nice. don't shun them too much or they might go back to their annoying selves or do something drastic. u should go talk to a counselor or your advisor
2006-11-02 18:25:45 · answer #9 · answered by skigrrl66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell a teacher or counsellor...this is not acceptable behaviour from them..you should NEVER put up with anything that makes you feel uncomfortable and/or unsafe!
2006-11-02 18:24:44 · answer #10 · answered by REDMEAT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋