I have been in this relationship for 7 months and I love my b/f and he loves and I know this. But his problem is that he has a VERYYY low temper and it becomes to dating violence. He wants to me to do everything what he says if i don't then he get's mad, If i do something or want to see someone he B***h about it. Is very bad and on halloween he got mad for something stupid, and he kinda threaten me and i told him that i didnt want to be with him and when i told him that he started to cry all lot and he had a nerves break down. I am a sensative person if i see someone cry i'll get sad and ill feel bad. So I am scared to break up with him because I am scared what he might do to him self. PLEASE HELP
2006-11-02 10:19:18 · 7 answers · asked by babychula928 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him to grow the hell up. Time for you to find a dude that respects you... you can and will fall in love with someone else.... that treats you the way you should be treated.
2006-11-02 10:22:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No man EVER has the right to put his hands on you or to disrespect you in any way. Get out of this relationship NOW! Tell your parents, the police, get a restraining order if need be. You feel bad if he cry's...who will feel bad for you when things escalate and he does real harm to you? End this now and find a real man who makes you feel good about yourself as well as him. No good will ever come from this relationship, only heartache and pain. My prayers are with you. All my best, Robin
2006-11-02 10:26:49 · answer #2 · answered by Robin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the relationship before it gets physical! I know it sounds easier said than done but isn't your safety worth it? You have no control of what your boyfriend does, so don't feel guilty for leaving. This relationship is very unhealthy. Just think how out of control it can get in the future. If you choose to stay then most likely you will be the target of your boyfriend's behavior. It's up to you to make the right decision!
2006-11-02 10:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by evesmystique 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy totally fits the profile of an abusive partner. Either get out now while you can or, if you really love him and want to be with him, get him some professional help. His anger-management issues, jealousy, and blaming you for everything are unacceptable and unusual. Don't put yourself into this position just because you're scared for his future. If he refuses to see a counselor, tell him you're done with him.
2006-11-02 10:22:38 · answer #4 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds to be like he is looking for pity, so you won't break up with him. He does sound like an abusive person, no offense, but relationships don't work out if each person doesn't pull their own weight.
On the other hand, this guy may want to change. He may not want to leave you, or vice versa. If he does want to change, he would say so, but with what you have described, it sounds like he is a person who is very defensive. Try and figure out if he wants to change his temper or not and if he does want to change it, then it can work out.
2006-11-02 10:25:19 · answer #5 · answered by wizard of stealth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say just end the relationship and move on from Him you deserve more then someone who's not going to respect you ... you need to find someone who will respect you and truly love you!! Good Luck with the situation ...
2006-11-02 10:29:08 · answer #6 · answered by Bekah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, sweetheart, kick his *** to the curb! Don't throw any more than 7 months of your life down the tube for this loser.
2006-11-02 10:22:42 · answer #7 · answered by Smith Smith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋