it didn't go so good = (?

Question

i had my first french/make out the other day and my friend asked him how was i and he said i was a bad kisser. i know they usually say the first kiss isn't good but what can i do so i become a better kisser? any tips too?

Answer 1

Practice....what else can you do? lol

Answer 2

I personally would go ask the guy why he though it was so bad. If he's a more experianced kisser than you ask him to give you tips on how to be better, but if it was his first time too, then guess what...you had two people who were new to it. Kissing is never right the first time, but it gets WAY better the more you kiss. Don't take it as an insult, take it as creative critasim.

Answer 3

Nobody's perfect on their first try! What you need to remember is this: try to imagine you're eating a delicious piece of fruit. You don't jab fruit with your tongue, right? And you don't mash your face into it really hard. You just open your mouth ever so slightly and wrap your lips around it tenderly. It's the same way with this. What I would suggest you do in the meantime is let Mr. Smarty Pants who doesn't think you're a good kisser show you some techniques he does enjoy. It would be good practice for you and it will shut him up about your kissing style. Or, better yet, go get pointers from an entirely different guy who hasn't insulted your style yet. Let him know you've never really done that before, and he'll enjoy teaching you.

Answer 4

Well, if he really truly liked you, it wouldn't matter if you were a bad kisser or not, but my advice would be just to practice, kiss him more, the more you kiss, the more used to it you'll get and the better it will be. Hope that helps.

Answer 5

Practice makes perfect. Honestly, I would approach the dude you were kissing and tell him it was your first time and would like to get better. See if he can help you out. Also....don't want to encourage anything, but kissing different ppl will also improve your kissing skills b/c you can pick up different techniques from each person. Then once you're experienced a few here or there you can put together you own hot smoldering kiss that will melt and wrap any dude around your little finger. :)

Answer 6

PRACTICE!

sounds silly, but you can only get better with time & practice...and I don't mean with a pillow. find a friend (maybe someone with a crush) and ask them if they'd like to teach you how to kiss or if they'd be willing to practice with you...but make sure there's not going to be any hard feelings so they feel used.

if you don't want to practice with a friend, then just wait until your next opportunity to kiss someone and give it all you've got.

a few tips that i will give is this--

*don't lick your lips or put on lipgloss before hand, sloppy wet & sticky kisses aren't the greatest

*don't open your mouth too far...you're kissing, not trying to swollow their face

*open your mouth, this isn't the peck on the cheek you give your grandmother at christmas time

*if you don't know what you're doing with your tongue, keep it in your own mouth.

*when you're ready to start exploring with your tongue, don't keep it rigid and try to shove it down their throat...swirl it around their mouth a little, tease their tongue with yours and then pull your tongue back into your own mouth, don't make it last too long, especially when you're new at this

*if you've got their tongue in your mouth, be careful about your teeth! no biting...wait until you're more experienced to start playing with that sort of thing!

*mostly just do what feels good, and make sure you tip your head the opposite way as they do, or you'll wind up smashing noses or worse!

good luck & have fun!

Answer 7

You walk up to the guy and ask him why he thinks you were a bad kisser....and keep in mind that everyone likes something different. One may think you're bad, the next might think you're the best thing since sliced bread.

Answer 8

seriously i HATED my first kiss, and if you ask others i am sure they would agree. you just need practise and time. i luckily had a friend i used to practise with (a guy). there is no specific way to do this, and some people like it one way and others like it a different way. who knows maybe he was the bad kisser.

Answer 9

Keep practicing with people who know how to kiss and don't have any cold sores.

Answer 10

Play, have fun. I usually take the lead, play w/ his tongue. Make eye contact for time to time, its super sexy. And suck on his bottom lip, he will go wild!

Answer 11

oooohhhhhhhhh i am sorry to hear that.no tips just find a guy who is not so judgemental and naggy.he should be lucky that you even waisted your lips on him.lol.