THis girl tells me she had a crush on me but I dont know if she's serious or not...what do I tell her.
Now this girl is nice and stuff, but i don't really like her that much....
2006-11-02 10:13:51 · 9 answers · asked by rockability 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm guessing she's serious and wouldn't tell you that with out much confidence. You don't want to crush her so try going on at least one date. Who knows? You might end up liking her no matter what you think in the beginning. You can't be absolutely positive until you give her a chance.
2006-11-02 10:18:22 · answer #1 · answered by Clearbrook 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh oh.. I feel a little bad for this girl.. (Ya see a lotta 'crush' questions in here.. I look in this category a lot I guess..) I kinda don't believe in the girls being so obvious telling the fellahs she's interested.. (She sure spelled it out.. the word 'crush?' .. scares the guys off in a way.. is my pet theory.) Can you let her down easy, pleeeze?? (She'll be writing us next! lol.) So.. last sentence, you don't even LIKE her? That for real, then? (How she get this huge crush thing goin' ya think? Man, you must be pretty potent to be around, eh? wink-) My advice? Smile.. Say 'I am flattered. I am interested insomebody else.' (Short and sweet..) It's not the words, it's HOW ya say them.... and think of somebody you'd KILL to be with.. how she would say the same words to you, K? alright then- (peace-n-luv)
2006-11-02 18:19:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say she HAD a crush on you, suggesting that is it. Don't do or say anything that will lead her to believe you want something to develop. At best she is a friend. If she asks, tell her that you have too much on your plate to spark up a relationship. Then thank her for caring and telling. That's it.
2006-11-02 18:19:00 · answer #3 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just leave it for a while and keep a close watch... i am sure you would be able to tell if she did, by flirting etc.... if you don't really like her in this way than just let it go and if she admits it again then talk about it. in the mean time just think about what YOU want, and how to deal with it.
2006-11-02 18:20:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe go to the movies together and talk, if you find you don't like her tell her that you don't like her like that and you seriously want to be friends becouse she is a nice girl
2006-11-02 18:17:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like her then you should spare her feelings and tell her. It's not right to lead her on
2006-11-02 18:25:53 · answer #6 · answered by dcutegirl06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah really she likes you, i would say so you wont to go out sometimes.. you may start to fall in love with her, just give her a chance!
2006-11-02 18:17:20 · answer #7 · answered by Tonya Sizemore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u don't really like her and u don't know if she is serious leave it alone
2006-11-02 18:16:30 · answer #8 · answered by Y3SSi<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you talking about me? it's okay it was just a dare anyway!
2006-11-02 18:21:56 · answer #9 · answered by i love NOLA! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋