How do I know if im doing it right? Hes been with so many other women and I havnt. I dont want to disapoint him. He told me that its up to me, wether im ready or not. I need some guidance, and please, hurry!
2006-11-02 10:02:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-02 10:05:09 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't sound ready to me. If you were ready, you would not be so worried about it. At any rate, it doesn't matter what those other women were like, he is with you now and you are the one he wants to be with, right? Don't worry about disappointing him; he will just be happy that you are having sex with him. If you decide that you are going to do this for sure, let him take the lead. He will let you know what he does or doesn't like and you should do the same. Also, don't expect the first time to be great. If you two love each, the cuddling and kissing will be the great part, but for many women, the first time having intercourse is not pleasant. It can be painful. If your boyfriend is experienced with virgins and is skillful, he can help lessen the pain. The best thing to do is to try to relax and just enjoy being with him. If you are worrying about whether you are "good enough," you will not relax. After the pain, pleasure may come, but that depends upon your body. Some women orgasm easily but there is a large percentage of women who cannot orgasm with vaginal intercourse. Only experience will tell.
2006-11-02 10:12:57 · answer #2 · answered by runningviolin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you think you are ready then go for it but remember you never get that back, be sure he's the one before you give away your virtue honey. If you want to have sex there is really no right or wrong way to do it it's going to be awkward as hell for you anyway since it's your first time but if he goes slow and gentle it should be alright.
2006-11-02 10:07:49 · answer #3 · answered by T.T. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication whilst making love is important, that way you both find out whats perfect for the both of you.
Sit down with him, talk to him how you feel about the situation, and how YOU want to go about the situation.
Im still waiting ;-)
2006-11-02 10:08:31 · answer #4 · answered by Simmer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't sound like you're ready to do this. Don't let anyone pressure you to do something that you will never be able to take back. If he's the right one, he will wait. Guys really don't want a girl that gives it away freely.
2006-11-02 14:30:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing in the world we can do to help you. Your first time will be uncomfortable and unenjoyable. Just get it over with and do a lot of oral. And if he's worth *******, then he'll understand and be gentle. Otherwise, you better think twice this decision. BUT, you have to have your first time sometime.
2006-11-02 10:05:59 · answer #6 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use protection and make sure you are ready. alot of people regret their first time or the person they did it with. my suggestion would be if you want to do it then make sure you have lubricant the first time could be a little better with lube.
2006-11-02 10:06:29 · answer #7 · answered by Ankit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I advise that you don't do it. Do you really want to give your virginity to someone who has done this to plenty of other women, he obviously never loved any of them if he's not still with them. Why do you expect things to be different with him? Don't give up your most precious part to someone like this.
2006-11-02 10:06:20 · answer #8 · answered by supernerd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry you dont sound ready --- if you are ready --- you would not disappoint him --- if he is considerate and careful it should be an enjoyable time for both
dont stress --- dont plan anything except where and make sure you have protection -- whatever feels good enjoy
2006-11-02 10:07:17 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
think it over and make sure its what you want. is he really the one? how about in a long term? marriage? but if you go with it, be safe make sure you dont end up being pregnant. take care of yourself.
2006-11-02 10:11:32 · answer #10 · answered by kewlgurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋