How can I convince my mom?

Question

How can I convince myy mom into letting me get a puppy. I know they are a big responsiblity and expensive, but... I have had one before, I just had to give it away because we were moving to a town house with no pets allowed. I have enough money, and I just want a sweet little mutt. How can I convince her that I am responsible enough having to think that I have had one before, and that it would be with my own money... not hers?

I also volenteer at the hospital, so I am very responsible. I have a ton of time for a dog. Im home more than my mom, so I would be taking care of it.

Answer 1

%%%First of all check out three books from the library about dogs and dog training. When talking with your mom, just bring up casually something that you just learned from the books.

%%%Ask her if you can volunteer at your local shelter to help dogs, and learn more. (most shelters have a petting room, or a dog walking program, and need volunteers to just give animals attention)

%%%Study the books about choosing the right breed for your family, and comment on this often to her.

%%%Ask if you can give a dog from the shelter foster care for a week to see how a dogs fits in your family

%%%Do ALL chores as soon as asked

%%% Keep your room clean, and show that you are growing up and accepting responsibility.

but you need to remember that dogs live to be 12-16 years old, and you can't know where you will be by that time.

.Dogs don't stay puppies very long, and taking care of an old dog is expensive and time consuming...so who will be there for the dog?? Most likely the duty will be left for your mom.
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also, during the weeks of potty training, it is Mom's furniture and flooring that will be ruined..and her table legs that will be chewed..
It will never work if she doesn't want the dog in the first place...

If you can do all of the above, and let your mom know how much you understand all of the problems that come with a dog, she may be willing to consent....but, you really do need to consider her feelings and wishes.

Show her some of the pics on this site, and see if she can resist saving a life> http://search.petfinder.com/search/search.cgi?action=1&pet.Animal=Dog&pet.Breed=pomeranian&pet.Age=Baby&pet.Size=&pet.Sex=&location=TN&preview=1&scope=0&x=8&y=4#

there are many on that site like this one..irresistible, and already house trained! > http://search.petfinder.com/petnote/displaypet.cgi?petid=7289231

Answer 2

That is tough that you had to love your pet and then give him away. I don't know how old you are? Are you in a house/place that you can have an animal and keep it? You have to be just as caring about your pet's needs as you are about yours. How do you earn your money, working, chores or birthday money? Feeding and making sure that your pet is medically taken care of can cost a lot. If it came to the dog's needs or your need for newest clothing in style, game etc, could you sacrifice your need for that of a pet? Do you do a dirty chore around the house, garbage , cleaning the bathroom? If not, perhaps if you do that for a period of time, your Mom will know that picking up poop or cleaning an accident is something that you can handle. If your friends come over and want you to go out, will you make sure that your dog has eaten , gone out to the bathroom etc if they need to leave right away ? If you can do all these things, then I would say that you are ready for a pet and you now need to make sure that your Mom is ready as well. It is the maturity of all this things that make not just you but any pet owner ready for a pet, for their well being and yours. I am glad that you have such love in your heart. Sometimes it takes time and that love will pour out to a puppy/dog who needs that love if not now , I know someday. Good luck!

Answer 3

Are you now living in a home that allows pets? If so, then you'll have to have some serious discussions with your Mom. You need money to buy the dog, for veterinarian visits (you must keep up with the necessary shots), food, leash and collar, etc. If all of that is affordable, and you can prove to your Mom that you will be responsible, then ask her to take you to the local shelter so that you can adopt a pet and save its life. I hope you'll get your pup! A dog is wonderful to have as a best friend.

Answer 4

If your mom does not want a puppy, it is ultimately her decision (I know its not what you want to hear though)

Do you have enough for spaying/neutering? Monthly food? Yearly shots? Dogs are an ongoing expense, and maybe that is what your mom is thinking about.

Perhaps suggest adopting an older dog from a shelter, you know how big the dog is full grown, the dog is likely housebroken, and you are saving a life. Maybe your mom doesn't want to deal with the training of a puppy (Which is hard to do if you are school 8 hours a day) and an older dog would be the way to go.

Answer 5

Ya...I had 2 dogs that were put to sleep. It took me a while to get my chihuahua puppy. Well, I kept saying that i had dreams of having one and when i woke up it was gone. I told my mom and dad this a lot (I did the same thing to get my nice heart locket and my 30GB iPod Video...it's amazing how it works for me! LOL!) Well, show that your responsible. Start by babysittin your neighbors dog or something. Tell her about the positive side of having one and how it will make you feel to have one (I told my dad that i wanted to see a puppy running to me when i came home from school). Yes, it's actually work to take care of one. I have to give her a bath 2-3 times a month, refill her water bowl and food, pick up poopy or pee papers and replace with new ones, take her out for walks everyday, take her outside to go potty, teach how to do tricks (I taught her how to sit, lie down, roll over, shake, jump, crawl, and dance), and how to go potty where she needs to and not. Hope everything goes well!!

Answer 6

Just tell her, it will teach you how to be responsible. That it wont cost her anything. That it would be a big joy to you to have it. That you love her, and she looks nice, and you miss the one you had before. O and tell her she looks nice. HA, HA ou just have to let her know how much you wont it. Bargain, tell her you will wash the dishes, take out the trash, wash her car, and wax. Draw a picture of you, and the little mute, put it on the frig. for a great hint. She will give in, when she see's how much it means to you . Good Luck with the mute. )O(

Answer 7

Your mom might be happy and more aproved if you tell her to get a puppy with your money. But you need to add to your question like were you responsible with your first dog. Add on to your question so I can give you a good answer.

Answer 8

Go on the internet and show her visuals. Show her the money, and make it all look really planned out so she know you've been responsible in figuring it all out. Don't beg or whine- just approach it all with an adult manner, and she'll most likely listen. Research!

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Good Luck!

Answer 9

Best advice I can give is start helping out around the house and stuff. If you have a job, tell her you'll save up enough money if you haven't already.

Answer 10

Don't beg , mention small dogs ( small dogs are easier to take care of and you will have a better chance of getting a small dog . ) Do everything she wants you to do . Research and casually mention what you learn. It worked for me and now I have a Cocker Spaniel -poodle mix .