my 6 yr old son devon just came home from kids unlimited (a day care) and he said ms.becky made him take his pant and underwear off and stick his "wee wee" in her "private" and he said when he said no she hit him on the head with a book and put her mouth to his "wee wee" what do i do?? could he be lieing for attention since my other son has problems with s*x and stuff or could it actually be true?
2006-11-02 09:55:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
Why may I ask have you not called the police?!?!?
A VERY important fact in parenting, especially a child at that age. ALWAYS BELIEVE your child!
If he thinks you are doubting him, not only will he never come to you again, he will spend a life suffering!
~T~
2006-11-02 10:01:18 · answer #1 · answered by ~*bUtteRFy~*~kISSeS*~ 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Absolutly call the police! At this age, he most likely his telling the truth. You should thank him and praise him for being courageous enough to come to you. If you let this go on, he will grow to beleive that you do not love him. What if there are other parents that are unaware of this happening to their child? You owe those children a chance to mend, and you owe them all a bit of justice in the horrific situation. The longer you wait, the harder it will be to face the facts and call the police.
Not to pry, but is your other son a bit older? Could Devon have heard a conversation between you and he? Or could your other son possibly introduced this behaviour to Devon? You owe it to everyone in this situation, to find out the truth. If it was Ms.Becky, then she deserves some serious prison time, and if it was your other son who instagated this, this he needs to be disciplined. Whether this even happened or not, therapy needs to be implented into your lives. Given circumstances, your first action should be to contact the police department.
Feel free to email me at mamaofthesweetest4@yahoo.com
I have been in a similar situation before.
Hope this helps you to stand up for that precious child of yours.
mamaofthesweetest4
2006-11-02 20:49:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A child of that age is not going to make something that vivid up. Always believe your child. A child is not going to tell you something like that to get attention. I would call the police and make a report, call CPS and make a report, and then call up the superviser at that day care when you all done. Do it now while your child's memory is fresh and action can be taken. Both agencies will investigate it. Better safe than sorry.
2006-11-02 18:02:01 · answer #3 · answered by Perri L 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Does your other son have access to your 6 year old?
Either way best to call the police.
Hope everything works out fine.
2006-11-02 18:05:44 · answer #4 · answered by kissmybum 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even if he is making it up, you have to investigate this issue.... it's just too serious to let go. If this really is happening, your son needs someone to help him, not question him. If it turns out to be a story, then Thank God! But if there's even a chance this could be true, it MUST be stopped!!
2006-11-02 18:00:36 · answer #5 · answered by Little*Boots 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
um - 6 year olds don't make that stuff up. Call the authorities immediately to report it. if this is a day care, they need to be investigated. Do yourself the favor for your children, and any other parents who have children who are too scared to say anything.
2006-11-02 17:59:53 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Lucky 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Call the police immediately & report this. Whether or not it actually happened. You need to support your child & have this investigated. 6 yrs. old is pretty young to be making this stuff up.
2006-11-02 17:58:45 · answer #7 · answered by Renee C 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A 6 year old wouldn't know that. Call the cops NOW!
2006-11-04 13:47:49 · answer #8 · answered by No Name 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, that's my boy.
6 yrs old and already getting some action.
Just tell him to say his "piece" instead of "wee wee".
Just kidding...
I think everyone that suggested you call the police are correct. Maybe they can give this lady a "wee wee" that she will not soon forget.
Kidding again...
I hope your kid is OK and that this doesn't hurt him in any way.
2006-11-02 18:07:59 · answer #9 · answered by Piranha 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Follow up on it and call the cops. If it turns out he's lying (unlikely) than you should make sure he's not around when you're discussing those things and behaviors with your other child.
2006-11-02 18:03:01 · answer #10 · answered by puzzleraspie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋