The other day I was talking to my cousin's girlfriend who is 15 and pregnant by him,(I'm 22). She got pissed and left for about 4 hours, and when she came back she would not speak to me except to tell me that she was moving out. She says this **** every other day, and I know to take it with a grain of salt. The thing is, I cannot talk to any females whatsoever unless they are immediate family. Anyhow, aside from this extreme jealousy, she is awsome and I love her to death. The frequency of these occurences however, are giving me some doubts about our relationship. Give me some input.
2006-11-02 09:54:10 · 10 answers · asked by murderman3 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I understand you love her to death but everytime you talk to someone of the opposite sex she is going to keep doing this. You have few options here you can put her in her place and just let her knwo your not going to stop communicating with the opposite sex just because she is insecure, you could never talk to the opposite sex again but that will make you miserable, or you could tell her how much her insecurities bother you and how unreasonable she is being but it sounds like everytime you talk to a female she turns into a big big *****. Is that what you really want to deal with, ask yourself.
2006-11-02 10:03:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is sweet that you love her as much as you do. But have you thought that maybe she just needs to deal with her issues by herself. my sister is kinda like that. and she had to take some time to herself. Also, did she really flip out because you were talking to cousins 15 year old pregnant girlfriend? thats a bit much. I dont know, im not the jealous kind really so i cant put myself in her shoes, but i think it is safe to say you werent acting interested int he 15 year old. talk to her about it. if you want to take sometime off then tell her, if not then try to work through it, but dont let this relationship go on if she is jealous to the extent. it isnt healthy, for either of you.
2006-11-02 18:04:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her leave, ,but do not compromise yourself for her. She has to grow up and realize that there were other females in your life before her and that they will always be there. You had friends before you met her and she needs to realize that you are not going to stop speaking to them just because she isn't comfortable with it. She needs to get some help for her jealousy or maybe she feels guilty because she is doing something and is trying to but the blame back on you.
2006-11-02 18:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by juicie813 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A real relation ship shoudnt have doubts and if she's treating you about moving out may be because she doesn't want to live with you seriously but you should talk to her communication is the one of the most important things. Think about it!
2006-11-02 18:02:02 · answer #4 · answered by Nena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cant have a true relationship without trust. She is insecure and immature. Tell her that she has either got to learn to trust you and stop with the remarks or go get out and stay out!
2006-11-02 17:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend is insecure. Now the problem is figuring out how much of this is your responsibility. Do you unknowingly flirt when she is around? Are you a bit too friendly with the waitress at dinner? Or is it all her? Once you find the problem areaS, you can start a dialogue with her.
2006-11-02 17:57:19 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
she's 15 and she's BOTH your girlfriend AND your cousin's AND she's pregnant by him?
Yeah, your relationship's in trouble, dude. YOU should move out and join a dating service or something and give up underaged girls.
2006-11-02 17:59:16 · answer #7 · answered by Wonderland 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Unless you are a total masochist, dump her and move on. Otherwise you will have everlasting pain.
She is emotionally sick and will stay that way.
U talking about your or your cousin's gf?
Maybe you are the sick one...
2006-11-02 17:57:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you know what they say......the quilty ones are ALWAYS the jeolous ones!
2006-11-02 17:56:56 · answer #9 · answered by lostonehere 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um...i lost you
2006-11-02 17:56:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋