Ok, This girl liked me for quite awhile but I was way to shy to talk to her. Now she is ignoring me and I want to at least try to get something going. The only problem is that I dont know what to say to her... Any suggestions (please try to be somewhat specific if you can)?
2006-11-02 09:45:08 · 12 answers · asked by spacemonkeysfromhell1234 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi, how are you? for starters.. what are your plans for the week end? take it from there , if she answers then it is a start..
2006-11-02 09:48:44 · answer #1 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say just approach her and ask her out. I know it sounds easier of what it really is but it won't happen by itself. Also, once, I had a crush on this way who never paid attention to me, I tried everything you can imagine but nothing worked. So, I started ignoring him and he got all weird because he was receiving mixed signals. He ended up asking me out one day and I did go out with him. Maybe she's trying to see if it'll work. But .... good luck with that !!! (If it doesn't work out it's not the end of the world) :D
2006-11-02 17:54:31 · answer #2 · answered by Guagui 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably thinks that you don't like her so that's why she is ignoring you now. But, i would tell her that you are just a shy guy and really don't know what to say.
2006-11-02 17:49:57 · answer #3 · answered by stephanie_kanode 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha you sound like someone i know! Ive liked this guy well for like 2 years, and this year i havent really talked to him and i want to but idk what to sya but hes the quiet one! So if he were to talk to me i guess he could just ask her how shes been. Talk to her about what she likes obviously but im sorry i can think of many things just because ive wanted him to be brave enought o come talk to me for a while! but just say if she likes a certain movie go be like hey i just got this movie the other day ive never seen it and since its your favorite i thought youd like to see it...sorry this is hard casue i think of him wow im sure shes just as head over heels as your girl is and she doesnt care what you say to her you could speak another language and shed be happy!
2006-11-02 17:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by ugly truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is really ignoring you because she is trying to make you react. Just talk to her, invite her out, just no be shy.
2006-11-02 17:47:34 · answer #5 · answered by Woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you think she's a great girl and you've been scared she's going to reject you if you ask her out. Tell her you're sorry it's taken so long to do it, but you're prepared to hear whatever answer she has for you. Then ask her if she would like to go out with you.
2006-11-02 17:48:59 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet Pea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to talk to her asap. she prob got the impression that you had no interest, and thats why you didnt talk to her. just start up a conversation, dont be afraid to say hey whats up? good luck
2006-11-02 17:48:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably mistook your shyness for not liking her,so just tell her you've never done anything like this before and explain about being shy if she likes you she will understand.
2006-11-02 17:51:20 · answer #8 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about...
hey how have you been? i feel like i havent talked to you in forever.
she probably got tired of waiting for you to talk so she made herself get over and move on.
you might have to work for her attention. but once you got it. your golden.
2006-11-02 17:46:58 · answer #9 · answered by Questionnn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say hey would ya like to go for a coffee?
2006-11-02 17:49:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋