Help!!!!! What should I do?

Question

Okay... It's this boy.. and he is in my class. He resently told me that he had feelings for me. About two days later my friend told me that she like this boy. I didnt tell her that I had a crush on him.. because she really like him or whateva... I do want to go with him but I dont want to lose a friendship and he has threaten to tell her that he had feelings for me... What should I do?

Answer 1

she has no claim on him...why because he is not interested in her!!!! you cant feel bad because he likes you and not her...she will have to get over that fact and if the tables were turned what do you think she should do??? Would you have to accept that he didn't like you?? She is not being realistic if she thinks that she does have a claim on him just because she told you she likes him first......its B.S. If he told her that he likes you and you told her too and you didn't ever want to hurt her because she told you she had feeling for him...but you realized that your silence wasn't helping anyone. Tell her you want her friendship but it cant be destroyed by some guy. help her find someone new... she will get over it .....

Answer 2

you shgould tell her before he does and she might understand if she doesn't try and exsplain its not your fault if she doesn't listen and he sorry you still like the boy who likes you than go ahead and date him no use in you being sad over a boy you love i should know i still can't get over him but i still have my friend who has some how turned as bitter as a lemon soi take my advice plzzzzzz

Answer 3

let him tell just cause he tell her doesn't mean anything and if she's your real friend no guy can tear yall apart or it would be better for you to tell her just my opnion

Answer 4

tell your friend and see what she say

Answer 5

and you asked this under polls and surveys y?