I pretty much feel head over heals for a girl whose personality made me instantly fall in love. After doing everything i can to make her happy and actually listen to what she said i finally brought my feeling up. Things didnt go good... she told me she just didnt know enough about me. Allot of tings that are to hard to explain happened farther down the road and i got a different excuse one day that was because she liked someone else, and that he told her he loved her. Im cool with it which is odd because i know when im bested. But this same guy told her straight up "if you wanna be with me, you have to have sex with me" so i guess my question to you all out there is. What the hell do woman want from us and how the hell can we possibly do more to deserve you than offer anything you want and "job security" (if you will)? am I just the nice guy who finishs last?
2006-11-02 09:42:10 · 8 answers · asked by houseman2012 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nice guys may finish last, but they always end up with quality relationships. The girls who date "bad boys" are the ones who have personal issues that you don't want to deal with. It's so hard when you have feelings for someone that are not returned - we've all been there. It sounds like this woman just simply did not feel the same connection you did. When you find the right one, you will just "click" - you won't have to do anything to impress her. My advice? Just be yourself!
2006-11-02 09:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by Kashmir 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So she is leaning more towards the bad guy who wants sex right ? Well what are you doing ? Your chasing a girl who is looking the other way. Is she being nice ? I think not. So how come your going after the bad girl instead of looking for that good girl who wants you and only you ? Enough said.
2006-11-02 17:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. You're a nice guy. Most likely, she's not into nice guys, and prefer the bad boys. In the end, of course, she will be hurt, then she will be a male basher. The pattern is common. What does she want? Obviously, she's not mature enough yet to know.
2006-11-02 17:47:47 · answer #3 · answered by mac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You hit the nail on the head,girls like bad guys until they grow up,then it usually to late,the good guys don't usually want anything to do with them.
2006-11-02 17:47:46 · answer #4 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all we dont all want to have sex personally i dont even want to even talk about sex when i have a bf unless were married and if he forces us too have sex or something that means hes a JERK and i would just want a guy who is in love with me and is comitted to our relationship and who would never force me to do anything i dont want to do and yeah i would def want a nice guy who brings me flowers and who is a gentleman and a christian
2006-11-02 17:55:35 · answer #5 · answered by InlovewithJESUS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girls really dont want that much you should remind her how beautiful you like she is. and no one shold push her into doing sex just to be with a guy thats not right. And you need to fine a girl who likes you for you.
2006-11-02 17:47:10 · answer #6 · answered by brown eyes baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully, most of us don't even know what we want ourselves, so there is no way to tell you.
2006-11-02 17:45:40 · answer #7 · answered by noambition 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
calm down . I didn't do this to you . she did . don't judge us and think we are all like that. Thank you..
2006-11-02 17:46:22 · answer #8 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋