I met this girl and wer friends.but shes too shy.we havent held hands yet.i was in love b4 with her thats why i bcame her friend.how do i make her hold hands.flirt.kiss and stuf.i want to be able to tel her i love her.i want us to hold hands,make out,and stuf how do i get her out her shyness.how do i know when to hold hands.how do i know when shes flirting coz shes shy.
2006-11-02 09:24:52 · 11 answers · asked by u know me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Holding hands is always easier when it isn't an abrupt transition. Try to sit right next to her (legs touching) on a couch and see how she reacts. This is really easy to do in a movie or while watching tv. If she seems comfortable with you close enough to be touching her then she probably likes you or is at least open to the idea. Does she smile? Good sign. At some point once you've gotten comfortable sitting close to each other, you move from just inadvertent touching to something more obvious, like putting a hand on her leg or lightly on her back or lightly touching or stroking her arm with your fingers. Look at her and smile. Try to get some eye contact, even if she's shy. If she still hasn't found an opportunity to move to the other side of the couch or room (which would imply she's not interested), and she wants to hold hands, most girls will typically have their hands somewhere they can be held, such as on her leg (this is an obvious sign). If they're crossed or unavailable, this could be a negative sign that its still a no go. If its there for the holding then grab ahold and get used to the idea. It might feel like a big deal, but as long as you keep in mind that it really isn't that big of deal that makes it easier.
2006-11-02 09:39:01 · answer #1 · answered by bubb_rubb_and_lil_sis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear virgin boy,
Tell this fine young lady that your shy and would very much like to be on her good side. Ask her what can you toward this end. If this does not get you laid. Next time your alone ask her for a hug, then plant a kiss on her. Bedding time should follow shortly.
2006-11-02 17:29:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just grab her hand one day when you are alone. If you make the first move she'll follow along in no time. Promise. If you can get the first awkwardness over for her, she'll follow suit.
Good Luck.
2006-11-02 17:50:50 · answer #3 · answered by MakeBelieve. All you want. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it really easy, just touch her sometimes when you're talking, like on the arm or shoulder. If you get the idea that she likes that, increase the touches and start touching her hands. See where that will get you. Good luck
2006-11-02 17:30:14 · answer #4 · answered by Jaco K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are too young to handle these emotions. Wait at least 2 years, (when your 10) and you might be able to handle it then.
2006-11-02 17:31:36 · answer #5 · answered by jessica s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she may like u so just tell her that u like her. U cant do anything about her shyness though. That's a personality not a covering.
2006-11-02 17:28:02 · answer #6 · answered by gigglegeek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to make the first move.. you sound like you are being a little shy too.. just tell her you want to and ask if she is comfortable with it
then go for it
2006-11-02 17:28:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she want you or does she just want to be friends.
2006-11-02 17:35:46 · answer #8 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her tonight at any arndom time and say you love her.
2006-11-02 17:27:31 · answer #9 · answered by Cupidity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kiss her
2006-11-02 17:26:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋