i recently met this guy jeffrey we're both freshmen at college. Hr's always going on and on about how gorgeous he thinks i am and i think he's cute too. Whenever we see each other on the streets he barely says he and later he begs me to let him come up to my room and we end up doing stuff like him fingering me and lotsa things i dont wanna do..and i know i dont wanna do it but whenever he calls me i still let him come to my room knowing he's going to try to do the same stuff again..he isnt even my boyfriend! i dont wanna be in a relationship right now tho he's asked me to.he's pretty fine with the fact that i dont wanna be in a relationship, so what do i do?
2006-11-02 09:19:19 · 5 answers · asked by 0 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that you think that it would be best for you guys to just go your seperate ways. It will be ok to just talk on the phone, but not to go to your room. It seems like he only wants one thing. SEX If know that when he goes to your room he's going to want to do things and your not comfortable with it then tell him that. It's not good to keep doing it just cause he wants to. If he doesn't understand then too bad it only means that he doesn't respect you. Do what you know is right. You will be better off in the long run! If he doesn't talk to you when he sees you on the street then he doesn't care. GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-11-02 09:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by lem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's sexual in way that makes you uncomfortable, but won't talk to you in public, he doesn't really care about you. You are being used. He's fine with not you not wanting a relationship because he has no intention of having one with you. Bye bye Jeffrey.
2006-11-02 17:24:49 · answer #2 · answered by julz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you for sex, and you're not displaying any willpower. Think of your future husband and how you want to present yourself to him. Do you want to be virtuous and present him with a real gift, or do you want your wedding night to be just another roll in the hay
2006-11-02 17:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by Rob VH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to make up ur mind
u say u dont want to be in a relationship but still you treat him like ur boyfriend and he doesn't even treat you as his girlfriend in puplic.
that 's a little wierd.u should also be frank with him for his own sake.
2006-11-02 17:29:31 · answer #4 · answered by crazypumpkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young lady have you ever heard just say no,an tell him to stay in his room it is yours so tell him so.
2006-11-02 17:31:08 · answer #5 · answered by bigdogrex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋