tough times....?

Question

how many people are going through "rough times" and have children??? Explain??

and how did you get out of it?

my tough time ever that i had to endure was my mother died jan 29 at age 64 very suddenly and just 5 days later my son was born feb 3... but they had to induce me so i could get well QUICK and say goodbye to my mother. it's something i will never forget and my son is a constant reminder of how long it's been since my mother has been gone

Answer 1

I have no kids... but the past six months have sucked for me. Why?

1. Broke up with my girlfriend because she is bi-polar and pushed me too far after 3 years of dating. The verbal abuse got overwhelming. I love her, just cant be with her.

2. My best friend, my Dad, died.

3. My career, which I have been at for all of my adult life, blows.
I only stay because I get paid way too much money. That I am thankful for. I am financially secure, but emotionally poor. I have a huge house, money, cars... but no quality person to share it with.

4. 5 years ago, I found out my wife was cheating on me, so I divorced her. .

I could go on, but It would just make you want saw your own head off listening to my woes.

Bottom line, life goes on. We need to make the most of what we have. Its hard to do... I know... But we must try.

I will keep a good thought for you, keep one for me, too.

Answer 2

I have a playlist for instances like that. Some of the songs on their are: Tonight Is the Night - Outasight Keep Your Head Up - Andy Grammer Room For Happiness - Kaskade feet. Skylar Grey Room For Happiness (Ice Mix) - Kaskade feet. Skylar Grey Bonfire - Slow Kids At Play With A Little Help From My Friends - The Beatles Way I Are - Timbaland feet. Keri Hilson Count On Me - Bruno Mars Sanctuary - Utada Hikaru Feel Good Inc - Gorillaz Try Again - Aaliyah BQ: It's ok. BQ2: Prophet (Better Watch It) - Rizzle Kicks BQ3: Friends, meals, video video games, the web, and sleep. If I think unhealthy, my peers in most cases make me think higher. If no longer, I use anything to occupy my time like video games or the web. A satisfactory meal and a well night time's sleep additionally makes me think higher and is helping me fail to remember approximately matters. I desire you think higher.

Answer 3

My ex left me with 2 small children and never gave me a penny for child support. I refused to give up, I had children that needed and depended on me. I worked 2 jobs, never asked anyone for anything and raised my kids. Times were hard but I got through it. Throughout the years things got better. Put my kids through college, they support themselves and bought my own house, car, etc. Last I heard the ex was living with his mother and has no job. Oh well, that not my problem. Life goes on.

Answer 4

first to answer your question: yes i am going through a rough time and i have children.....my tough time is dealing with a couple of medical conditions that make functioning difficult when they hit. my children are only moderately affect by this, because they are young and i don't put my adult problems on them. luckily i have a great hubby that picks up the slack when i can't.....other than that i can't complain.

umm..... i just looked over some of your questions and i'm not trying to be rude but is there a reason you keep dwelling on your mother's death?? tragic yes and sad even more so, but why do you look for sympathy from strangers?? i only ask this, not to be cruel, but so that maybe you will take a step back and look at your actions: you have mentioned it at least 4 times in the past month in your questions and more often than that prior to the past month..... and in your answers well you have mentioned it more than 4 times in the past month. believe me i understand grieving, but to keep bringing it up to strangers seems a bit unnatural to me.....i really don't mean to offend...just something i thought i'd point out

Answer 5

It's horrible to say, but most people in way or another go thru 'tough times' every day. It's how you deal with them that's important. Good Luck!!!!

Answer 6

I think most of us in this world today, are having ruff times. l think its a combination of, our economy has gotten way out of hand, job market is a disaster, kids now days have it way to easy, cell phones, p/c, beepers, video games, and the justice system is so out dated its a joke........and the ACLU has taken most of our freedom away for are kids in school.

Answer 7

Financially yes - but we make do w/out govt. help. And emotionally we are good - although my grandmother just passed away yesterday and my kids are pretty upset today (a great grandma to them)... But things will be brighter tomorrow....at least I hope they will be

Answer 8

Oh cool! We can whine a bit to you? Okay........my wife is in need of a kidney and has not found a donor as of yet. , my kids live with my sorry A*S*S ex-wife,I am broke until some of my customers decide to get off their butts and pay their bills,my truck was stolen and finally...........my car has a flat tire! Any more answers needed?

Answer 9

The last 2 year my dad was emotionally abusive. we got him some help and it is much better.

Answer 10

Right now I am. I just keep Praying, asking God to help me!