okay...this is the story.
i'm not sure if the guy i like is going to ask me out. we went to homecoming together, and i've never felt better! he's amazing, i really like him. and we're always together....during band we hang out, we go to after school stuff together, i talk to him either by texting or calling him sometimes at night, and we walk to class together.
is he ever gonna ask me out? since h/c, everyone is asking if we're going out! and we're not...but i really want to!
my friends are trying to find out for me, but even if we do go out, it doesn't seem like much is gonna change cuz we practically act like we are going out.
can someone please give me advice or help me figure out what is going on with him?
guys and girls answers please!
thanks~
2006-11-02 08:49:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Julie-i already do most of that stuff! i try to start doing stuff with him after school, and thats why we do it. i'm not that forward usually, but with him i feel i have to be for our relationship to go anywhere. help past that?
2006-11-02 09:05:11 · update #1
since y'all already spend so much time together and already act like you're an item, he may not feel like he has to ask you out. I would drop hints about maybe hanging out after school, or grabbing dinner together or something sometime, maybe practice your instruments together so you can help eachother get better...something like that, and see how he reacts. Also be forwarned, if you make the first move to actually get him oput on a date, or be too obvious baout it, he may then expect you to make the first move then on the date or to get more dates, until he's fully sure what it is you're doing or that he's 100% that you like him.
2006-11-02 09:02:47 · answer #1 · answered by Julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I was in a similar bind. Just ask him if he'd ever consider going out with you. But don't wait forever cuz if u do you'll wined up wondering what could have been. He's probably thinking u just want to be friends and wishes u two could be:):)
2006-11-02 16:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by natinarichard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont wait to long or youll never know. why not just ask him out yrself. read tips on flirting and dating to help you more on this site
2006-11-02 16:51:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats perfect you dummy! that way you practically have him but you dont have to be tied to him you can go ahead and flirt with other guys!
2006-11-04 22:05:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...what's your name...I think I might be that guy but I'm not in band...
anyways just go talk to him that's the rut I am in and we can't seem to get around to talk about it even though we talk about
2006-11-02 16:55:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out instead! don't just wait for him to ask you!
2006-11-02 16:52:10 · answer #6 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be confident that he will okay girl
2006-11-02 16:50:50 · answer #7 · answered by jay s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my girlfriend almost killed me... i was in hospital for 7 months... im not in mood right now.... but thanks for the points...
2006-11-02 16:58:40 · answer #8 · answered by Abyss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋