There's this guy I know, he gave me his number, his mobile, and his email address, and we communicate often. We see each quite regularly too. We're not intimate. (I'm a woman btw).
Whenever he sees me he smiles and seems pleased to see me. We talk for up to an hour on the phone about anything and everything. He flirts a lot with me and is a really great guy, but it's almost always me that makes the initial contact.
Why is that? Is he interested or just being nice?
2006-11-02 08:48:28 · 20 answers · asked by F 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i asked my partner why it was always ME who initiated sex even though he is always hungry for love he said i was more open about stuff and he was more laid back knowing i would always be the one to initiate things as in fact made me feel very in control yes i spose he is right i am a control freak
2006-11-02 08:58:50 · answer #1 · answered by no nonsence 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I was just asking my b/f the other day, why it is always ME who calls in the morning, and sends out the first e-mail of the day. He told me because I was always doing it, he just assume that is what I would continue to do. Then he started calling me! So, just tell him that you would like to have him make the first move. Guys are way too simple to figure this out on their own!
2006-11-02 08:52:30 · answer #2 · answered by Zooya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be because he'c comfortable with you and enjoys your company. Either he sees you as a friend in which he can tell you anything or he likes you and is trying very hard to be in your life.If you like him too, try making the first move for once and see what happens.
2006-11-02 08:52:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's interested, just a little shy.
I act like that with this girl too, but that's merely because I don't know how her that well enough to let loose.
He's probably just unsure about how fast to come onto you.. he doesn't want to make you feel uncomfortable now.
2006-11-02 08:55:31 · answer #4 · answered by Yosh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he's interested. He could just be shy or scared, or used to girls making the moves. Maybe something happened in the past to make him really doubt himself, did any of his old girlfriends turn gay, or train him to be that way?
2006-11-02 08:54:16 · answer #5 · answered by Julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is definately interested...if he wasnt he wouldnt put that much time into you. I think hes just scared to make the first move due to rejection. maybe you s hould tell him how you feel? that might make him more comforable.
2006-11-02 08:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you dating, or is he sidelining you for dates, coffee etc etc? If he is willing too see you, I wouldn't be concerned, he's likely interested, however, if he's dodging dates and such, likely not that attracted too you.
2006-11-02 08:54:51 · answer #7 · answered by ZiggyCool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is shy or just taking things slow. Better slow than too fast.
2006-11-02 08:51:49 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's interested and doesn't know if you are so just make the first move and if i'm wrong then he wasn't good enough for you anyway
2006-11-02 08:52:28 · answer #9 · answered by missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on him and see what happens.
2006-11-03 00:33:32 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋