I MEAN HE JUST WILL NOT BELIEVE YOU. SO WHEN YOU GUYS **** HE'LL FIND OUT RIGHT?
2006-11-02 08:42:27 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him you don't date guys who keep saying you're a liar and stop seeing him. He's just saying that to make you "prove" it to him.
2006-11-02 08:44:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you tell him and he says he doesn't believe you, then there are 2 things to think about:
1) He doesn't trust you to be honest. And if he doesn't trust that you are telling him the truth - why? Have you given him a reason to doubt this? If not, then it's HIS problem and not yours. He'll need to get over it. Don't cheapen yourself and your self-respect to prove a point.
2) Maybe he's got an ulterior motive - i.e. he wants you to prove it
But the biggest question is: WHY DOES HE CARE!?!?! He sounds like a snake.. I agree with Heinz above.
2006-11-02 08:49:05 · answer #2 · answered by Behind Blue Eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just telling you that, so you will give it up to prove him wrong. I've seen this little game played by a lot of guys. Be careful all he wants is your virginity. Reverse psychology, get the picture.
Good luck and stay away from preying wolves !
2006-11-02 08:59:11 · answer #3 · answered by This, That & such 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. If he doesn't believe you then that's on him. As long as you know what you are then that is all that matters. You don't have to let him find out cause us girls should know that we are beautiful and can do without. Just know that you don't have to prove nothing ok.
2006-11-02 08:49:10 · answer #4 · answered by getlykeme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely get rid of him. If he cares whether or not you're a virgin then it's not worth being with him. Find someone who appreciates the rest of you.
2006-11-02 08:48:20 · answer #5 · answered by Eileen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't waste my time with him if he didn't believe me....He could be saying that in order to dare you to show him you are a Virgin. Reverse Psychology....don't let it work....you body and sharing something like that is too special....wait for someone who is worth it....he doesn't sound like he is.
2006-11-02 08:46:26 · answer #6 · answered by Lovely B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope this isn't a situation you're...you never have to prove your self-worth to ANY man, especially something as sacred and special as your virginity, darlin'!
Tell him to get to steppin'! Don't even contemplate casting your pearls to swine!
2006-11-02 08:48:13 · answer #7 · answered by incognitas8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you don't have to answer to anyone but yourself in this matter. It is none of his business what you did before you met him. Do you grill him about his past? no. So...just tell him that this is something private and you are going to keep it private. Be a strong, wise woman and just stand tall and don't back down on this. If he doesn't like it, ...men are like buses. One comes along every 15 minutes!
2006-11-02 08:46:08 · answer #8 · answered by the witch 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What do you mean? There's nothing you can do... either he believes you or he doesn't... Why would it matter? Sounds like he's just out to bag a virgin.
2006-11-02 08:45:07 · answer #9 · answered by The Captain 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is a very usual and cheap defense mechanism some guys use not to have to feel 'guilty' about 'taking it' from you.
Chances are he is too dumb to even know he gets it, when he does.
2006-11-02 08:46:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋