I've figured out that I need to date a stripper, for reasons that I won't get into now but will answer if you email me. When you're at a stripclub women are only there to hustle you (i.e. get you to buy a dance from them). They'll say and do almost anything to get you to put down the first $20. They'll act like they're into you, they'll call you cute. But, they're so not into you, and it's just a job. Truth be told, they probably have their minds on their boyfriends and/or children that are waiting for them back home. How do get a stripper to actually take you seriously and give you her number, and if she does, be confident that she didn't give it to 5 other guys during the past few weeks? Or is that even possible?
2006-11-02 08:40:41 · 7 answers · asked by Wilhelm 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, considering that you're essentially hustling and using her, I doubt you'd ever feel that you weren't being hustled in return. Deciding that you need to date someone based on a certain career, not because of the person they are, is a hollow reason to strike up a relationship. It won't ever feel right, especially if you don't hold their career, and thus them, in high regard.
2006-11-02 08:44:21 · answer #1 · answered by Kareen L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you said email for reasons, but i still have to ask!!!......why would you want a stripper?? lol! At the end of the day the girls in strip bars are just doing a job, there are other working girls out there for more than a dance! You're paying them to be cute with you, so of course they'll be into you, until the money stops. You have your own concerns about the women you are hoping to date...ie giving out her number to loads of other guys, also what if she did give you her number and dated you, do you want your girl to be dancing for other guys!! Now, are you handsome? umm intrigued! I like your confidence.... start getting out and about a bit more, other places than strip bars and I am sure that a truly beautiful woman will be waiting for you...and will gladly give you, just you, her number. Good luck handsome. x
2006-11-02 21:01:50 · answer #2 · answered by GalaxyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to be a competent pick-up artist to pull this off. here's some tips. show disinterest in her by ignoring her advances, being more entertained by your buddies or your own conversation, or bringing a a hot chick to the stripclub with you. also tell her things to make her reveal her personality, while you completely disregard her physical looks. show her that youre impressed with aspects of her personality and mannerisms much more than her physical beauty
you see, she'll be impressed because she sees you as different from all the other guys that just gape stupidly at her boobs and butt. she'll also get the impression that youre accustomed to dating gorgeous women. deep down, she wants a man who can see her inner character beyond her outer beauty, and thats exactly what youll be doing
finally, you have to be more interesting and valueable in the interaction than she is. you have to be the hard to get guy that she needs to chase. impact upon her that youre above her status in her own club, rather beneath her like every other chump there. thats the game plan
dude if you were in or near the nyc area, we should so hang out ;)
2006-11-02 08:54:39 · answer #3 · answered by unkerpaulie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never given my number to a customer and probably never will. We use stage names for a reason.
If you act interested in her, rather than her body or dancing, and become a repeat customer (and not buy from anyone else), there's a possibility. Even then your chances are slim. Very, very slim.
Send me an email with more info and I'll help you the best I can.
2006-11-03 10:02:20 · answer #4 · answered by love.potion69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go into the bar do not go any where near the stage at all , dont buy lap dance at all dont tip strippers at all , buy drinks and tip bartenders realy welll , dont act interseted in the strippers at all for about a month at least
2006-11-02 08:47:59 · answer #5 · answered by bolounit1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats easy just pull out like $50.00 and tell her there is more where that came from..... and of corse she will keep coming back to you. then you only start throwing her 10's or 20's later in the evening you tell her if she dose privite dances and most of the time thay say yes!! then it is a simple as pulling a pen and paper out of you pocket!!!
2006-11-02 08:47:55 · answer #6 · answered by ford_mud_runner 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Offer her some pot and she'll follow you. A friend uses this ploy and it works. Even when he is out of town.
2006-11-02 08:43:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋