Ok, so I'm a guy and I have found that even if I really like a girl a lot (verging on love), I will still also think about other girls like that. And I was wondering if you guys (and girls) are also like that? Or do you focus totally on one person and not have any stray thoughts?
2006-11-02 08:35:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is normal for both sexes to do this. You can love someone, but still check others out or wonder what it would be like to date them. If it never gets past that, then thats fine. If you love the person you are with and never cheat on them, the thoughts that cross your mind are meaningless and only makes you human.
Sometimes by thinking of other girls, you realize that you are happier with the person you are with and it enforces you current relationship.
2006-11-02 08:40:54 · answer #1 · answered by pixie_vixen117 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is indicative of your not being a "monogamous" type of person. You're polyamorous, which means you can be in love with more than one person at a time.
2006-11-02 16:44:41 · answer #2 · answered by steve d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok to look at people and think what if but when you turn back around and you look at the one person who you know loves you then you automatically think yeah that girl/guy looked nice but i have something already! its ok to look just dont touch and if your spouse gets mad then its ok they will forgive you.
2006-11-02 16:44:41 · answer #3 · answered by Lindsey T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with just me,I im really into one guy(we aint together)but ometimes i might,every once in a blue moon, think about another guy!
2006-11-02 16:42:39 · answer #4 · answered by daddys girl14238 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok, just as long as you aren't in a relationship.
2006-11-02 16:38:12 · answer #5 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋