uhhhm; well my boyfriend seems so emotionless and feelingless ; how do you make a guy open up to you ? i tired talking to him ; but he says its not important ; and he says what he feels is no important ; and feelings are weak . it really hurts and we`ve been together for 5 monthes; so its really hard to go thru this ; how do i make my man open up to me ? please . i need carig help please . <3
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2006-11-02 08:34:44 · 13 answers · asked by Apples! (: 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont tell me to give up ; because i know theres still hope ; if i give up ; it wont show anything ; i still believe . i dont give up that easily
2006-11-02 08:41:19 · update #1
I think you've done the best anyone can do to try and open him up and if he isn't then get rid of him. He will regret having lost someone as nice and good as you and there's nothing that will change, because you deserve better than him and if he isn't willing to try than move on. Find someone who will love you back, has feelings and will treat you the way you deserve to be treated (which is very good, just so you know). Good Luck
2006-11-02 08:41:29 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my bf was the same way for the first 4-6 months.
we've been together for a year and now he is completely open with me and we have great communication (emotions etc...)
when i talked to him about it now he said it was because he liked me a lot but was afraid to say so because fear of rejection
he had also been really hurt in the past and didnt trust girls
you guy could also be trying to impress you wit the whole alpha male thing. its hard for alot of guys to show emotion but if you get along well and have a good time together id say wait it out you never know what could happen it all could change in a sec!
good luck with everything!
2006-11-02 08:40:30 · answer #2 · answered by bob123456789 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when a person goes through some very harsh trauma in their lives, they lose the emotions and feelings and will not open up. I doubt this is his case. If he doesnt want to, he won't until he feels comfortable. Don't push him too hard.
2006-11-02 08:38:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
perchance he's in basic terms too shy to fully make a circulate. have you ever tried making the 1st circulate? start up by skill of protecting his hand.... while you're needing extra desirable than he grants you, then it would be time to look else the place... i does no longer suggestion being in a courting which you will possibly bring about a great sort of frustration..... sturdy success!
2016-11-27 00:07:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he a capricorn by any chance? If he is, that explains it. Tell him how you feel. If he doesn't change, he probably never will. Then again, he might start being more affectionate once he realizes how you feel. Just have a talk.
2006-11-02 08:40:39 · answer #5 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the way men are, well most of them. The only way to ensure that he won't EVER open up to you is to keep asking him to open up to you.
Men don't necessarily want to "share their feelings". Maybe it's the way we're born; maybe it's what society teaches us. But that's the way it is. If he wants to talk to you about something, he will. In the meantime, don't push him. He will clam up even more.
2006-11-02 08:37:45 · answer #6 · answered by bodinibold 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because he is a boy they eat drink and sleep if u say "got get me a pillow,and lay the baby down" this is what men hear" get a pillow and lay down" thats y i have not meet a man that likes me and thats ok with me if there was a cute boy then yeah
2006-11-02 08:39:16 · answer #7 · answered by ~Jessie~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read: Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.
2006-11-02 08:37:19 · answer #8 · answered by jack w 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I acted this way to my girlfriend because I really didn't like her. Maybe he doesn't like you.
2006-11-02 08:37:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
showing and not wanting to show any emotion and feelings means ... he doesn't really love you. ..
2006-11-02 08:38:02 · answer #10 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋