I've seen this guy 3 times, and he's always been the one persuing me. But today I asked him to meet for lunch tomorrow and he said he probably can't, and that a quick lunch wouldn't be enough time together anyway. He said he hopes we can get together soon though. My gut instinct says he's backing away from me, but maybe I'm being paranoid. Should I wait for him to ask me out again, or should I ask him out one more time?
2006-11-02 08:28:14 · 12 answers · asked by Tiny T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope, it's his turn now. If you have heard nothing in a week, move on.
2006-11-02 08:30:15 · answer #1 · answered by bigbadwolf 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't rush things. He may want to spend more time with you then just a quick lunch. Just be patient and if you two were meant to be together then it will be. Only time will tell.
2006-11-02 16:35:03 · answer #2 · answered by getlykeme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure he was pursuing you? if he was and just now suddenly started backing off, maybe he met another girl. he might also be a control freak, and your act of asking him out could feel threatening to him. either way, give him a couple of days to cool off and ask him again. if he does turn out to be too controlling, don't bend your neck for him or any other man. you can do better.
2006-11-02 16:34:56 · answer #3 · answered by Flint 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you waiting for him to ask you out again. Maybe he loves to do the chasing!
2006-11-02 16:34:58 · answer #4 · answered by model-me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About the same as when asking a gal out.
People do have things to do other than following your invitation, you know? And he was very clear on why not. Isn't equality great? ;-)
2006-11-02 16:32:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what you should do.
because he said not enough time.. find a concert, play or sporting event that he can take you to. since you will have a couple of days to plan it out .. figure out where to eat dinner and where to eat after the event .. he pays ...
2006-11-02 16:38:37 · answer #6 · answered by freeway823 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably ask him out again at another time and if he blows you off again then I would leave him alone cause he's only being with you when it is convienient for him...
2006-11-02 16:32:43 · answer #7 · answered by keshaallenadair 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait a little then ask again.
2006-11-02 16:31:16 · answer #8 · answered by Redhothumanity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You ask him one more time. if you wait for him to ask he may not. find out . ask , and you will know how he really feels about you if he has another excuse/reason...
2006-11-02 16:31:40 · answer #9 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let things go and wait for him to come to you now. dont chase him anymore. if he has a strong interest in you he will come to you within a short time. read tips on dating and more to help you on this site
2006-11-02 16:30:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋