when i with my ex boyf (i was with him 5 years and engaged with our own place), this guy who i met thru my ex (not a friend of my ex)said that he wishes he could meet someone like me.we swapped numbers coz im trying to get into the same career as him and he said he would help me out. he kept texting me to meet up with him for drinks but i refused as i was in a relationship.i split with my ex 8 months ago(not coz of him) and this guy still texts me now to meet him.i have a couple of times.we have only kissed. he only texts me at weekends to meet up.we live in different areas. does he like me?ive know him for over a year now?why does he only text at weekends and not ask me out properly?is he a player?he always pays me compliments and makes conversation with me.
2006-11-02 08:24:58 · 12 answers · asked by Becky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
is he just playing it cool cause of my past relationship?
2006-11-02 08:28:23 · update #1
oh sweety you know what he is dont you? he is propably a married man who works away from home hence the weekends all men who want your knickers down say "why can i not meet a girl like you" get a full time bloke not a part-timer xx
2006-11-02 08:44:02 · answer #1 · answered by no nonsence 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,
I read through some of the answers you've been given and i still don't really know what to say to you. On one hand i feel he might be a player but then again if he was a player wouldn't he only be free mid week??
If i had a boyfriend or hubby who was missing at the weekends then I'd find it really strange. So honestly i don't know.
I do think you should sit down and have a chat....may be he's taking it easy for you... maybe he's just busy during the week...
These are all things that only he can answer for you. Give him a chance and go with your gut feelings from there...
2006-11-02 16:55:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definitely sounds like he's a player to me. If he can't do better than a text, it's obvious, he's likely hiding that he's either with someone, or maybe even married and doesn't want them to search his phone and see he's been calling you...I'd atleast question him and see why, he only texts you...Either way, the guy is obviously not top quality if he can't muster up a better way to ask you out...It seems he may be using the compliments to influence you to perhaps sleep with him...Watch out for this one!
2006-11-02 16:32:27 · answer #3 · answered by PutridBliss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a player. Why doesn't he text on week days. He is currently in a relationship, and I guess the only reason he wants you on weekends is that his g/f is probably away on weekends. Be wise and be cautious.
2006-11-02 16:46:30 · answer #4 · answered by saintbeng 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im so sorry to be the one to have to tell you this babes but he is playing you,proberly has a girl back home,why would he travel from his own town to yours at weekends?because everyone in his home town knows him and his partner thats why babe.forget him,dont look for love trust me it will find you when you least expect it.
2006-11-02 16:39:14 · answer #5 · answered by DAZZA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn!.. well.. I read this acouple of times.. I just don't like the sound of it (I mean him..) My gut feelings, here.. (and I'm 53/F) are he is playin' ya.. I know..that hurts.. It's nice if we think somebody's wild for us and all that happy sorta stuff (I sure wanna think it round here!) BUT the fact he knew you were livin' w/somebody might've 'opened up the possibility' department in his (typical male) brain and put him in 'player' mode with ya, hon.. Sorry, gotta be honest w/ya! (let him slide..) peace-n-luv
2006-11-02 16:29:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is defo a player.he is probably hiding something like a wife and 10 kids.dont fall for it.
2006-11-02 16:28:09 · answer #7 · answered by clarelouiseprince 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish i could help you out more hunny - but considering i don't know him, i can't really be of any use.
do want you think is right and good luck to you
2006-11-02 16:28:30 · answer #8 · answered by FreakGirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn't sound right to me, but hey i text all the time and hardly ever call.
2006-11-02 16:30:18 · answer #9 · answered by robashdown2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has a relationship... Avoid him...
2006-11-02 16:27:16 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋