Is he cheating?

Question

i have been going out with this guy for about 1 month. i have recently found out from loads of people that he is cheating on my with his ex. apparently they have made out on many ocations. im thinkin of ending it. what do u think i should do?

Answer 1

The only thing you can do is talk to him about it. Confront him, and tell him that you've been hearing terrible things, and you wanted to hear it from him that it's not true. If he admits to it, re-evaluate your relationship. If you want to stay with him, you can give him another shot, or get rid of him. Whichever works the best for you. Good luck!

Answer 2

I think that he may have used you as a clutch, meaning that some people get in a relationship with someone else, just to get over someone else but still have feelings for that person. So with you and he only being in this relationship for 1-month,he is not over her yet and you need to allow him time to get his feelings straight so that you don't get hurt. I would back off and let him get rid of his ex completely and if he doesn't then I would move on. I would not sit around and ask him about it and listen to the lie he is going to tell because if several people are telling you this is happening, then more then likely there is some truth to it. Tell him what you heard and let him know that its cool but you cannot stick around and be his clutch, he can come and holla at you when he is ready to start a new relationship without the baggage. Good Luck

Answer 3

Have you asked him if what those people are saying is true?
If you are thinking of ending it, than it's probably a good idea. I would say though, have a talk with him before you do. Figure things out now, it's only been a month, if it's not meant to be, at least it's only been a month and you can get over him faster than if it was a year. Good luck!

Answer 4

If you've only been with him for a month and you already suspect him of cheating then things are only going to get worse ,not better . Especially if it's an ex. Because people that continue to make out with their ex's ,obviously aren't over them. And that makes you, a rebound . You're so fortunate to have found this out so soon in your relationship, because it will be much easier to get over .. And getting over him is the thing to do .

Answer 5

I would definately end it. If he is going to start out the relationship like this, there is no telling how he will act or what he will do down the round. It is good that he is showing his true colors early on and you did not find out months or years later after you have invested so much of your self into the relationship

Answer 6

You need to find out the truth and asking him directly more than likely wont make any difference, if he can cheat then he can lie but ask him anyway and if you find out that its true then get rid of the loser immediately, you haven't been going out long and if he cant be faithful for the first month then that shows that he does not deserve you. Good luck

Answer 7

One month of dating a person is not that long to really call it a serious relationship. If he is already seeing his ex he is still evidentally wanting to be with her. I would say stop and smell the roses and date other people, the right one for you will come around and you will know it. Be good to yourself, because I don't think he is going to be good to you.

Answer 8

He is cheating alright but he is cheating with you not on you do yourself a favour and end it you are heading for a broken heart

Answer 9

Leave him. Making out can lead to something else. Are you going stay around long enough to where they did more?

Answer 10

END IT to be blunt!! he's not worth it but confrunt him first!! if he lies dump him if he admits and isnt truley sorry dump him but if he's realised he's made a mistake giv him a chance then dump him is he does it again!!!