I bought my girlfriend an engagement ring after 2 years of dating, but never popped the question. Good thing, because she broke it off anyway. I gave her the ring anyway (stupid, but true) and that was 4 months ago. I saw her a couple times since then and saw that she was wearing it. I asked her about it the other night and she said "I was trying it out". That's all she said. That means nothing to me. Anybody else have any female insight into that?
2006-11-02 08:06:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im going to go ahead and say that she must be in love with the ring but not the person who gave it to her. Women are sometimes caddy, I will admit it, when it comes to jewelry. If it looks good on us we are probably going to wear it no matter who it came from or why. If it really bothers you that she wears it either ask for it back or ask her not to wear it being that your relationship was over awhile ago.
2006-11-02 08:10:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you didn't ask her to marry you, it is not an engagement ring. She probably thinks of it as a regular gift. It is not uncommon for a couple to exchange rings that have nothing to do with an engagement. My boyfriend gave me a diamond ring a few years back, but since it was not accompanied by a proposal, it was just a gift. So was yours. As such, just because you broke up, she does not necessarily have to return it- did you guys return everything else you exchanged over the years? Hope this helps!
2006-11-02 16:18:13 · answer #2 · answered by charlene182000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep.. she is trying it out to see if gets rid of guys hitting on her.
I'll wear a ring when I go out sometimes if I don't want to be hit on constantly.
The other reason could be she is involved with someone else and she wants to see what it would be like to have a ring from them.
2006-11-02 16:13:20 · answer #3 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that what she told you was true, it does not mean anyhting special because she was wearing the engagement ring, she was just trying it on to look good in it... Just don't get too excited
2006-11-02 16:12:35 · answer #4 · answered by lover 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She just likes the ring. Remember you did not propose so to her it's just a ring.
2006-11-02 16:08:39 · answer #5 · answered by kathy p 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
honestly, i think she either a) wants people to think shes taken b/c shes not over you. or b) shes not over you and still has hope.
2006-11-02 16:08:57 · answer #6 · answered by akmiriam 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋