The couple in question has been living together for several years and the bride has been married before. If a gift is required, what is a good gift?
2006-11-02 08:02:29 · 9 answers · asked by Jennifer L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I would bring a "host" gift since its an engagement party.
When they actually get married, buy something for which they've registered, or cash is always welcome.
2006-11-02 08:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think about it a couple who has already been together a few years and stuck by each other after the newness wore off is just as likely if not more like to stay together than a couple that is engaged after maybe 6 months to a year of dating. Don't judge people without knowing the situation. My fiance and I were together 3 years before we become engaged simply because we wanted to make sure we were absolutely financially stable. That being said my family is still throwing me a bridal shower but for me it is more about getting that experience and spending that time with my family and friends. After all I only plan to get married once. Also, I'm sure some people may bring small gifts to the shower but I am in no way expecting it but we are still very grateful because there are still many little things we could use for our home or a few things now would be a great time to upgrade. For example, we are registered for a vacuum. Just think about the situation before passing judgement.
2016-05-23 19:27:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not expected to bring a gift for an engagement party. If you're especially close to the bride or groom though, a gift of money or gift certificate would be nice. Keep in mind that you may also be invited to a shower (a case that a gift is expected) and of course the wedding.
2006-11-02 09:03:25 · answer #3 · answered by ihavethat45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since its an engagment party, get them a nice bottle of wine and be done with it.... if you feel like doing a little more, make them a nice gift basket, two wine glasses, wine, box of chocolates.... buts its just an engagment party. Etiquette says bride and groom shouldn't expect anything anyway.
2006-11-02 08:04:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The gift is NOT just for the Bride. See if they are registered, some people throw away things that remind them of the 1st marriage and this is a NEW start.
2006-11-02 08:05:43 · answer #5 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps the name of a good lawyer for her next divorce.
Seriously, probably just a gift card to one of the couples' favorite restaurants.
2006-11-02 08:11:28 · answer #6 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Engagement party?? I guess it depends how formal... your always suppose to rate these things on the cost of the meal. I would just do something like candles or something your know she would like. PRETTY TACKY, having an engagement party for a second marriage though....
2006-11-02 08:06:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
anice gift basket or a gift card from one of her favorite stores if you happen to know what that is . If not then a nice gift basket, Good luck and god bless.
2006-11-02 08:08:10 · answer #8 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get them something they enjoy...tickets to a show or a bottle of wine.
2006-11-02 08:40:11 · answer #9 · answered by VAWeddingSpecialist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋