I'm an 18 virgin I'm just wondering when girls have sex for the first time does it really hurt like people say and do girls bleed alot?And I'm not going to have sex till i get married to the person i love I'm just wondering how much does it really hurt.
2006-11-02 08:02:02 · 8 answers · asked by californian*girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That depends on size and gentleness of your partner. Mine was pretty big, but he went really slow, so it didn't hurt as much. Yeah ur gonna bleed, and sometime times it offsets ur period. Don't be afraid, just wait until you are ready.
2006-11-02 08:07:06 · answer #1 · answered by belle1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know for me, it did hurt, but I didn't bleed all that much. There have been people to say that you bleed more the second or third time, but yeah be prepared for it to hurt. It doesn't hurt really bad but it's just at the moment of having sex it does. It passes after a while. But I'm just speaking on from what I had experienced.
2006-11-02 16:13:03 · answer #2 · answered by girl_is_depeche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurts, but its a good feeling. and with the bleeding. its not like when your on your period. it's kind of like when your on your last day of a normal period. very light. you'll be fine. Oh and KUDOS on waiting till marriage. I will tell you though. Relationships should not be based on sex, but you may want to get a look at Mr. Right's winky to make sure it's not weird or small or anything, it doesn't seem important now, but could definitly be on your wedding night when you consumate your relationship....
2006-11-02 16:09:15 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't hurt because there should already be lots of 'playing' going on, penetration with fingers etc, before intercourse. If you are truly ready, relaxed and comfortable, there is no reason it should hurt or bleed.
2006-11-02 16:09:36 · answer #4 · answered by zmj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it doesnt hurt that much for like the first five minutes and i didn bleed and if i did not that much
2006-11-02 16:12:35 · answer #5 · answered by misslovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what! why would u ask that? anyway... i don't know. i'm only 13. but when u find out will ya let me know!! and i think that's it's awsome ur waiting for marrige!
2006-11-02 16:09:30 · answer #6 · answered by Emy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a quick sharp pain. If he takes it easy you will be ok. I think it's great you are waiting.
2006-11-02 16:05:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yeah, it hurts like hell then a lil blood depends on ur body.... but after u'll be fine.
2006-11-02 16:05:48 · answer #8 · answered by firstlove021 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋