I heard from my friends... (well and my personal experience too) some women felt that they're not on par with succesful handsome men...
Why is that? Aren't they supposed to be very happy having a good (not the no good rich guy type) handsome succesful men falling in love with them?
What more can they expect?
I asked some questions here... a lot of women said... if they could find good natured, good looking, and succesful men... they would snatch them without any second thoughts. But... in reality... some girls or women felt that they are far inferior than us...
I mean... we don't bite... we are at where we at... because of hard work... and eventhough... we're the elite bunch... we don't alienate ourselves from others nor act like a bunch of arrogant bastard...
Why is that? Do women really want to settle for less?
2006-11-02 07:33:50 · 13 answers · asked by Jimmy the Cricket 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No where close to vain...
We're a bunch of fine young executives...
Yet, when we found an ordinary girls... they all felt overwhelmed by our presence...
I don't know why...
That's why we ended up with stupid vain barbie girl... because... all good natured girls were so afraid of us... (fit in)
What's wrong sitting next to the CEO in a conference? Is it overwhelming?
2006-11-02 07:40:00 · update #1
Ahhh that's the words... they felt they could not keep up with our pace...
We're busy... but... it gets us where we at in our life now...
2006-11-02 07:41:52 · update #2
It's not that women want to settle for less. That's just b.s. people are insecure for different reasons. They feel like okay why would that person want me when they could have anyone in the world they choose. We put people up on these high pedestals and fail to realize that we all have imperfections.
It's kinda the same the other way around. Why is it that some guys are afraid of sexy & successful women? Is it cause you want to settle for less? No you just put us up on this pedestal and think everything's perfect and there's no way in hell we'd give you the time of that and this isn't necessarily true.
2006-11-02 07:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by Lucky 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We don't get intimidated. I think it's a misplaced feeling of jealousy. I mean as in men get more opportunities with more freedom.
Hard to intimidate me, though I've heard on the grapevine that I intimidate men. Go figure.
You could always try not flaunting the cash. If you're a show-off, women are more likely to turn up their noses. Well, some. Most will throw themselves at your feet. Of course, those are an embarassment to womankind.
2006-11-02 07:37:35 · answer #2 · answered by nereid_queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not feel that way because I am who I am and I expect a person to love me that way. It does not mean that because a person has not reached that level that she is stupid. Sometimes there are obstacles in life that held them back and they just have to accept it. If they are going to feel that way, why not just go back to school and further their studies and get where they need to be. I don't let any man intimidate me in any way. I would just be thankful to have someone who truly loves me with his heart and soul and respects me fully. Don't ask for anything else. I think the reason a lot of women feel that way is because, let's face it, when there are problems in a relationship, the person who is in a better position in life ends up throwing it in the face of their partner and putting them down. That can be a bit of destruction in itself. I think as long as their is a great deal of respect in the relationship, everything else will fall into place. I would be quite proud of my man being successful than to be intimidated.
2006-11-02 07:56:14 · answer #3 · answered by killerlegs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think women with self-esteem issues do. It's not that we want to settle for less, it's that we think you wouldn't want to settle for less. When I chat with men who are successful, I often feel self-conscious telling them that I'm a nanny. I usually back it up with "but I went to college and have 2 diplomas ect."
I mean I love my job, but I see the look on their face change, the same way it does when I tell them I'm a single mom
2006-11-02 07:40:25 · answer #4 · answered by who-wants-to-know 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Do women get intimidated by succesful handsome men?" No, only the ones with no confidence or self esteem. Otherwise, they Like them alot!
2006-11-02 07:36:09 · answer #5 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friends probably haven't heard or met any gold diggers. Many women would settle for less when they meet a really charming guy.
2006-11-02 07:38:04 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 04:02:36 · answer #7 · answered by freer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, NO...i dont get intimidated by them...my bf is a successful handsome man and i adore him for it....i fell in love with him...because of those qualities...and its not a bad thing....i can keep up with him...i guess if u love someone..u just have to be able to accept who he is...and not try to outdo each other....
2006-11-02 07:38:42 · answer #8 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I am not that way. Apparently these gals have self esteem issues.
2006-11-02 07:36:24 · answer #9 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you fall in love with the person. not what they do for a living.
2006-11-02 07:37:09 · answer #10 · answered by marie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋