ok who has experienced this -?
he and I have tried to hook up, hang out / whatever and it hasnt been working, I had **** come up and he had to reschedule blah blah etc
now I gave up but I still see him at the office and he called recently, and today he stopped by, and it just devastates me. I was nice and all and we chatted like nothing was wrong for about 30 minutes, then he left as usual but this time not promising to call. ( usually he promises and never calls when he says he will, it always happens later when I already dont expect to hear from him)
Now I know he just doesnt like me ( which suprised me when I realized it b/c almost everyone does, I am pretty and funny and have a nice body...so I was confused) but I just cant accept that fact!! Help, how do I let it go? How do I get it through to my head that its not gonna happen
Other guys that are lining up to date me are just not doing the trick, I still want him...
Thanks,
-turning into pathetic cliche girl
2006-11-02 07:31:58 · 10 answers · asked by Jackie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he is playing hard to get. Listen, if he really wanted to show you that he cared, he would pay more attention to you. Ignore him...make him wait...don't call him and let the vmail pick up when he calls. He will change. Don't ever give up your self for some man who isn't worth paying attention to. Go out with your friends and forget about him..if it is meant to be he will look for you.
2006-11-02 07:36:47 · answer #1 · answered by lifetime_chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people like to chase until they catch that person and once they have him/her they don't want them-and I believe you are one of those persons- play it smart don't bother with him some guys like the girls to act or be hard to get.If you are pretty and friendly and a good body maybe your to big or good a package for him to handle, some man feel intimidated when a girl has going for her what you do. Best thing for you to do is go out with other guys show him what he is missing.
2006-11-02 15:41:27 · answer #2 · answered by whisper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want him--why? because he rejects you, he doesn't follow through on his words, he just "toys" with you, he puts you off, etc...Pick one. You are worthy of better than that. Believe in that and reward the guy who is asking you out and not playing with your head! Also, just because you are pretty, have a nice body and a good sense of humor, not everyone will be "attracted" to you.
2006-11-02 16:07:01 · answer #3 · answered by hopscothchbunnies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's human nature to want what you can't have. Especially if you are use to having it all! If you ever got him, you probably wouldn't be that into him afterward.
With that being said, I think you should cut your losses. He doesn't seem that interested in you and he may just use you if he gets lonely or horney! Then instead of being pathetic cliche girl, you'll be easy office $lut and who wants that title?
2006-11-02 15:50:19 · answer #4 · answered by Chrissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow chicky - you need to get your nose out of the air! not everyone likes people just cause they're nice and have a nice body...do you have anything in common with him? maybe he prefers big girls. get over it and yourself!
2006-11-02 15:35:25 · answer #5 · answered by Cari 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your hooked that he is hot. just tell yourself that he can be your dream but you can get someone even better. Tell him one day when you did get someone better " I laugh at you ha."
2006-11-02 15:36:35 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just get over him
2006-11-02 15:35:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-02 15:34:00 · answer #8 · answered by Yahoo Answerer 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do u no if hes gay?
2006-11-02 15:47:17 · answer #9 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it up!!!!!!
2006-11-02 15:34:32 · answer #10 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋