recently my so called fiance was caught coming out of his ex's apartment complex so quite naturally I was livid. Here's the thing, he has cheated on me with her before (twice that I know of). I know I have been very wishy-washy with him in the past, only because he was distant (now I know why). So anyways, now all of a sudden he has this new found revelation about being out of his mind at the time; not knowing what he wanted and he has learned his lesson. My thing is why now? Is it because maybe she has lost interest in him because he can't make a decision or what?
2006-11-02 07:29:30 · 12 answers · asked by stella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
here is the thing when someone knows you love them very much they will take advantage of your love knowing that you wont do anything to them or leave them .well in your situation you have already showed him that you love him too much by letting him cheat on you and still sicking with him. so he will never stop cheating cause you don't seem to mind or care cause it is still happening and you are just staring. there is no excuse for cheating okay, when your man cheats it means that he does not value what you share and why should you. you deserve better than that ignorant ,self centered , inconsiderate bastered. leave him okay, life is short and you cant waste it on that loser. luv yah an goodluck
2006-11-02 07:41:10 · answer #1 · answered by bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your so-called fiance is not very honest with you...i know it is very easy for us answerers to give an advice...not knowing the whole scenario and the circumstances around it...but...if he cheated on you....why bother staying with him..he will do it again..don't wait for it to happen again when u are married already..preparing for a wedding is very time consuming and to think that u will just end up divorcing him anyway...do a lot of thinking...its for your own good but be it known that u will need to follow your instincts u know this person more than we do....
2006-11-02 07:34:56 · answer #2 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am a guy, but have to admit this dude if full of doggie doodoo. in simpler english, HE IS LYING to u.
what he said it was an elaborate "it was an accident" yes, it was an accident he drove there, an accident he went in,etc ect etc
DUMP him, he as cheated on u THREE times that u KNOW off. enough is enough. if u dont do it, whatever he does after that its YOUR fault (sowy). its like the expression "fool me once shame on u, fool me twice shame on me"
sorry to upset u, but thats how it works.
yes he is a changed man, he has changed his clothes so next time he goes there, he is wearing nice clean chothes (sowy again, i am trying to help u see it even more clearly)
2006-11-02 07:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by Nick A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it's time for you to move on and forget about him. If he's cheated twice on you that you know of, he will do it again, married or not.
2006-11-02 07:33:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump this loser. You are letting take advantage of you and step all over you. You can find a better man than that player!
2006-11-02 07:31:52 · answer #5 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that if he cheated on you, you should dump him. Be it he was out of his mind or not, I don't think anyone deserves to be cheated on.
2006-11-02 07:33:07 · answer #6 · answered by eleventy_blue42 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take it easy. talk to him and tell him your upset. don't ever make solutions without proper evidence. Ask him first. one way to know, if he is remembering, he will be looking to the left, if he is making it up, he will be looking to the right.
2006-11-02 07:33:04 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. You should be able to tell if he is telling you the truth. If you don't believe him then the truth is in front of you.
2006-11-02 07:35:00 · answer #8 · answered by Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooooooohhh..lol u confused me a bit there but u should not keep giving ur husband second and third,fourth chances girl..Or else he'll just keep doing it.. Tell him how it is.!
2006-11-02 07:33:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me."
2006-11-02 07:37:10 · answer #10 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋